You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cinamon said:My trains home are delayed because someone decided to kill themselves and walked in front of a train. Suicides gobup this time of year.
What would drive you to the point of suicide?
You need to be more sensitive to the feelings of others that my differ from your for many many reasons.. Life is not "fun" for most people on earth..:nono:Night Owl said:Personally, life is too much fun to kill yourself.
I would choose carbon monoxide cause you just fall asleep then die..no pain at all.. I used to think that gun shot was painless but then i saw a vid online of a man shoot himself and it was not painless at all .. He blasted a hole in his head and he was huffing and puffing and gargling violently for about 5 mins.. im sure he was in pain..:nervous: :nervous: :nervous:KontrollerX said:People that truly want to commit suicide use more final methods like hanging or guns especially.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I cant stand that. Here in USA recently people have been going on a killing spree before killing them selves. There were few high school/ college shooting sprees where 10-20 students died. There was also i guy who shot up a gym before killing himself because he couldnt get girls. I think thats very selfish and stupid. If you want to kill yourself , thats your choice, but why would u want to kill someone else too. Why destroy someone else life too.Noob said:i dont think i would ever commit suicide, if i ever would- id do it in a spectacular fashion, like some sort of Saw inspired contraption in my basement, or i would try to shoot the president or something like that, i certainly wouldnt waste my life by ending it in some lame ass way that no one will remember.
Haven't really given it much thought...are they still running the Gilmore girls? Or wait, is big still beautiful?Cinamon said:What would drive you to the point of suicide?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.