"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Suicide Rate Among Divorced Men Greater Then Women

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women fall for men more often, but guys fall a lot harder. Also, a lot of times the woman gets custody of the kids, as well as the house. The court system basically just took everything the man had been living for.
 

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Espi said:
Why do husbands die before their wives?

Because they want to!!! :)

Only two types of people marry:

Dumb men
Smart women
wow, thats quite the generalization you've just typed out. So when 2 people love each other and decide to get married, either the man is dumb or the woman is smart ? lol. C'mon.
 

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Ha! Talking about the financial windfall and all....I don't know if some of you remember this, but there was a thread linking an article from NYC or somewhere....about a "starter" marriage. Basically from a female angle where they kicked around the idea of trying out marriage to see if they liked it. It's almost like they'd conceded that the world is full of beta chumps and they knew they'd never stick with them. Funny stuff. We allow it to happen to us, though, sadly enough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speed dawg said:
Ha! Talking about the financial windfall and all....I don't know if some of you remember this, but there was a thread linking an article from NYC or somewhere....about a "starter" marriage. Basically from a female angle where they kicked around the idea of trying out marriage to see if they liked it. It's almost like they'd conceded that the world is full of beta chumps and they knew they'd never stick with them. Funny stuff. We allow it to happen to us, though, sadly enough.
Well, American guys like older women. Nightlife in America is about 35 year old women as compared to most parts of the world where it is about teenage girls. Oddest culture on earth.

Feminism has made American men feel guilt and self-doubt 24/7. Just a fact. Read the threads in this forum.
 
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BigJimbo said:
Well, American guys like older women. Nightlife in America is about 35 year old women as compared to most parts of the world where it is about teenage girls. Oddest culture on earth.
Have you ever even been to an American nightclub? Don't believe everything you see on Sex And The City, Jimbo.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Well, American guys like older women. Nightlife in America is about 35 year old women as compared to most parts of the world where it is about teenage girls. Oddest culture on earth.
What the fvck?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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