"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suggestions on Pushing Her Interest Level Past 51 % ????

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NeverFear

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Theres someone I like a lot but she's at 51 percent.

You know what Im talking about. She WILL go out, and shows SOME attraction, but isnt pursuing me.

She's at the TAKE IT or LEAVE it Zone.

Dont worry....i havnt gone AFC on her. I rarely call her, and i dont buy her anything. I come off as tough and confident. Im ****y and funny. I look my best. I stay in shape.

But this situation needs a push. Im prepared for the ole next, but this girl is a keeper.

Any suggestions? I need something dramatic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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whistler

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Come on. Be reasonable. 51%?

In any case, it's in her court.
 
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I don't get this 51% thing

If she was at 51% interest level, you would be hitting it.

Seems to me she's at near 0 interest level, the way I see it. Not negative, but not really all that positive, either.
 
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Lol 51% hahaha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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