"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suggestions on Pushing Her Interest Level Past 51 % ????

NeverFear

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Theres someone I like a lot but she's at 51 percent.

You know what Im talking about. She WILL go out, and shows SOME attraction, but isnt pursuing me.

She's at the TAKE IT or LEAVE it Zone.

Dont worry....i havnt gone AFC on her. I rarely call her, and i dont buy her anything. I come off as tough and confident. Im ****y and funny. I look my best. I stay in shape.

But this situation needs a push. Im prepared for the ole next, but this girl is a keeper.

Any suggestions? I need something dramatic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whistler

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Come on. Be reasonable. 51%?

In any case, it's in her court.
 

Bonhomme

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I don't get this 51% thing

If she was at 51% interest level, you would be hitting it.

Seems to me she's at near 0 interest level, the way I see it. Not negative, but not really all that positive, either.
 

italostud

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Lol 51% hahaha
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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