"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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suggestions on places to meet women?

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i need ideas. i dont really like bars, so i go to starbucks, the library, bookstores, walmart, etc. ive tried online and it doesnt work for me. its hard to talk to them at school because everyone is always in a hurry and on their phone when they leave a class. i go to the gym but women are busy there too. any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The earth. See a girl you like? talk to her.
 
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TRSX said:
The earth. See a girl you like? talk to her.
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haha right. but i really mean where are women at? i have trouble finding women my age. i guess most of them are married and stuck at home.
 
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Bars are the promised land and that is coming from someone that goes alone. Go directly to the stools, you will usually stand out there. Leaning back, cross legged with my knee on the bar is my signature pose :0). Talk to the depressed guy next to you, the person that is ordering whoever. Positive attitude and pretend to GAF about what they are saying.

Now that you have social proof, make your approaches. Positive attitude and pretend to GAF about what they are saying. The bigger your social proof. Now you have established home bases.

Know your limits. All I carry now is $40 and my ID, once I get into that 8-10 shot range, I have a .05% chance of getting laid.
 
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There is and never has been a set place.

Literally anywhere you go, you can pick up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is no best place or even "good" place. The sausage has infiltrated EVERY venue possible. It's about finding a place by trial and error that SUCKS THE LEAST.

To be fair, it's mostly about social circle today, not day or night "venues" per se. But it's difficult if you don't have a social circle.
 
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