"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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suggestions on places to meet women?

spang

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i need ideas. i dont really like bars, so i go to starbucks, the library, bookstores, walmart, etc. ive tried online and it doesnt work for me. its hard to talk to them at school because everyone is always in a hurry and on their phone when they leave a class. i go to the gym but women are busy there too. any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TRSX

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The earth. See a girl you like? talk to her.
 

spang

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TRSX said:
The earth. See a girl you like? talk to her.
haha right. but i really mean where are women at? i have trouble finding women my age. i guess most of them are married and stuck at home.
 

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Bars are the promised land and that is coming from someone that goes alone. Go directly to the stools, you will usually stand out there. Leaning back, cross legged with my knee on the bar is my signature pose :0). Talk to the depressed guy next to you, the person that is ordering whoever. Positive attitude and pretend to GAF about what they are saying.

Now that you have social proof, make your approaches. Positive attitude and pretend to GAF about what they are saying. The bigger your social proof. Now you have established home bases.

Know your limits. All I carry now is $40 and my ID, once I get into that 8-10 shot range, I have a .05% chance of getting laid.
 

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There is and never has been a set place.

Literally anywhere you go, you can pick up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mike32ct

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There is no best place or even "good" place. The sausage has infiltrated EVERY venue possible. It's about finding a place by trial and error that SUCKS THE LEAST.

To be fair, it's mostly about social circle today, not day or night "venues" per se. But it's difficult if you don't have a social circle.
 
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