Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Suggestions on how to spend New Year's

tryst type

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At this point I'm almost content spending it alone or just going to bed early.

All my friends have gfs/wives and will be spending it together. Basically a couples night/party. I never have fun when I try attending and no single friends are ever present, if anything some outside friends with their significant others show up.

Not to mention they tend to engage in board games and pair up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SecondHalf

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My suggestion is dependent on the size of your city...
I've been in your exact situation in 2010.
I ended up going to a huge bar hosting a new years event alone rather than tagging alone with one of my married friends. I had a blast. Practice your stuff that night. Women don't want to be alone anymore than men. Its easy picking.

SH
 

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SecondHalf said:
My suggestion is dependent on the size of your city...
I've been in your exact situation in 2010.
I ended up going to a huge bar hosting a new years event alone rather than tagging alone with one of my married friends. I had a blast. Practice your stuff that night. Women don't want to be alone anymore than men. Its easy picking.

SH
Thing is I've never been a bar guy. Don't really drink either.
 

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tryst type said:
Thing is I've never been a bar guy. Don't really drink either.
Are you a member of meetup.com?
There are tons of social events going on tonight (my city anyway).

Women everywhere wanting to be kissed at midnight. You can almost pull a stranger without objection.
Hope it works out for you. Bed would suck tonight!

SH
 

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tryst type said:
Thing is I've never been a bar guy.
Then BECOME one tonight!!

What kind of bullcrap is that anyway? Bars are full of women (which is likeable), people are happy (which is likeable), you can dance (which is likeable), you can act out and do things that are not socially acceptable in normal settings (which is likeable). Etcetera...

Or spend the night watching a movie all alone. Up to you. I'm going to a bar tonight... And I'm gunna hav me sum fun!! :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yjjxQcyWwaU
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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