Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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I wish this site had black, or atleast darker backgrounds. These white ones hurt my eyes.

There should also be an "Asinine Questions Forum" for all the stupid questions... that might save space.

Oh, and there should be a forum where the advanced DJers can post irregardless of their age. Mature Man is only open to those 25 and older. I'm comming up on my 22nd, and I'm more suave than any 25 year old (or older) whom I know of in real life.:p

Anyone under 25 who posts in Mature Man seems to get bashed for doing so (even CrazyKid, who is a mod!).

Thats all I can think of right now.

:cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by The Golden Leaf
Shhhh.... if you look in Crazykids links there's SS fourm and sucess story fourm. There are secret library
Hey, that's a secret, only known to those who see my signature...Ok, so maybe it's not so secretive.

Hopefully it stops the "we need a Success Stories Forum" and "Bring back the SS Forum!" posts.

Spike - I wasn't bashed for being underage (atleast, I don't think so), but for the "lack of moderation" I was apparently (not) doing in the Discussion Forum.
 

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Someone (who's name I shall not mention out of respect) told you that you that you should not even be in that forum because of you age, Crazykid. I'd have to check again, but I'm pretty sure that I'm right.:D
 

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there are guys posting in the mature forum who are not 21. so far what i've read they are not being bashed. i think what you may see is a moderator moving a thread if it doesn't fit into context with the mature board to the appropriate forum.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
there are guys posting in the mature forum who are not 21. so far what i've read they are not being bashed. i think what you may see is a moderator moving a thread if it doesn't fit into context with the mature board to the appropriate forum.
Yeah, that's exactly what I try to do.

For the record, everyone regardless of age is welcome to the Mature Man forum...under the stipulation that the topics posted are unique to "mature" men. This includes "advanced DJ" topics.

Allen posted "25 and older" only as a filter to keep the teenagers and college kids out, most of whom the forum was not intended for.

However, from the looks of things, I'm still probably gonna get a little more strict with the forum topics in the near future. More on that later.
 

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Being a little more strict could help.:D

But if will most likely result in having to move even more posts around that don't belong.:(
 

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After three days and no sleep due to my work, blue/white hurts.;)

:cool:
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
After three days and no sleep due to my work
*Cough* *Cough*
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by MrBond007
*Cough* *Cough*
You'd better cover your mouth when you do that.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
You'd better cover your mouth when you do that.:rolleyes:
Well its just that I hardly beleive that masturbation can be considered a job.
 

Spike_the_cowboy

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Originally posted by MrBond007
Well its just that I hardly beleive that masturbation can be considered a job.

You are hardly one to talk. You say that you only get one day off work each month to post here and that you won't be back for weeks at a time, yet you log onto this site and post some meaningless bullsh!t almost everyday.

I'm a part owner in my business at only 21 years of age. While you are taking orders from your boss, I'm giving orders to people twice my age. Now **** off and stop posting on my threads. I've wasted enough time on your dumb ass.

:D
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
I'm a part owner in my business at only 21 years of age. :D
You` ve got your business handed to you "big-fucking-deal".

Unlike you, I can only post between 6 PM to Midnight. You seem to waste most of your day on this forum.

Also, Im going to be a psychatrist so go hang yourself.
 

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I've worked for everything that I have. Much unlike some quack lier like yourself, MrBond007. You've posted nothing helpful in all the time that you've been here. Now do us all a favor and go away.

I'm hitting the ignore button now. Bye.:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
I've worked for everything that I have. Much unlike some quack lier like yourself, MrBond007. You've posted nothing helpful in all the time that you've been here. Now do us all a favor and go away.

I'm hitting the ignore button now. Bye.:D
No Spiky no!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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