"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wish this site had black, or atleast darker backgrounds. These white ones hurt my eyes.

There should also be an "Asinine Questions Forum" for all the stupid questions... that might save space.

Oh, and there should be a forum where the advanced DJers can post irregardless of their age. Mature Man is only open to those 25 and older. I'm comming up on my 22nd, and I'm more suave than any 25 year old (or older) whom I know of in real life.:p

Anyone under 25 who posts in Mature Man seems to get bashed for doing so (even CrazyKid, who is a mod!).

Thats all I can think of right now.

:cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by The Golden Leaf
Shhhh.... if you look in Crazykids links there's SS fourm and sucess story fourm. There are secret library
Hey, that's a secret, only known to those who see my signature...Ok, so maybe it's not so secretive.

Hopefully it stops the "we need a Success Stories Forum" and "Bring back the SS Forum!" posts.

Spike - I wasn't bashed for being underage (atleast, I don't think so), but for the "lack of moderation" I was apparently (not) doing in the Discussion Forum.
 

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Someone (who's name I shall not mention out of respect) told you that you that you should not even be in that forum because of you age, Crazykid. I'd have to check again, but I'm pretty sure that I'm right.:D
 

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there are guys posting in the mature forum who are not 21. so far what i've read they are not being bashed. i think what you may see is a moderator moving a thread if it doesn't fit into context with the mature board to the appropriate forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
there are guys posting in the mature forum who are not 21. so far what i've read they are not being bashed. i think what you may see is a moderator moving a thread if it doesn't fit into context with the mature board to the appropriate forum.
Yeah, that's exactly what I try to do.

For the record, everyone regardless of age is welcome to the Mature Man forum...under the stipulation that the topics posted are unique to "mature" men. This includes "advanced DJ" topics.

Allen posted "25 and older" only as a filter to keep the teenagers and college kids out, most of whom the forum was not intended for.

However, from the looks of things, I'm still probably gonna get a little more strict with the forum topics in the near future. More on that later.
 

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Being a little more strict could help.:D

But if will most likely result in having to move even more posts around that don't belong.:(
 

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After three days and no sleep due to my work, blue/white hurts.;)

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
After three days and no sleep due to my work
*Cough* *Cough*
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by MrBond007
*Cough* *Cough*
You'd better cover your mouth when you do that.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
You'd better cover your mouth when you do that.:rolleyes:
Well its just that I hardly beleive that masturbation can be considered a job.
 

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Originally posted by MrBond007
Well its just that I hardly beleive that masturbation can be considered a job.

You are hardly one to talk. You say that you only get one day off work each month to post here and that you won't be back for weeks at a time, yet you log onto this site and post some meaningless bullsh!t almost everyday.

I'm a part owner in my business at only 21 years of age. While you are taking orders from your boss, I'm giving orders to people twice my age. Now **** off and stop posting on my threads. I've wasted enough time on your dumb ass.

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
I'm a part owner in my business at only 21 years of age. :D
You` ve got your business handed to you "big-fucking-deal".

Unlike you, I can only post between 6 PM to Midnight. You seem to waste most of your day on this forum.

Also, Im going to be a psychatrist so go hang yourself.
 

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I've worked for everything that I have. Much unlike some quack lier like yourself, MrBond007. You've posted nothing helpful in all the time that you've been here. Now do us all a favor and go away.

I'm hitting the ignore button now. Bye.:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
I've worked for everything that I have. Much unlike some quack lier like yourself, MrBond007. You've posted nothing helpful in all the time that you've been here. Now do us all a favor and go away.

I'm hitting the ignore button now. Bye.:D
No Spiky no!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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