"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shortstop22

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hey guys, i saw this hb 7 on myspace, she's not really what many consider hot but she looks like the cute innocent type. anyway, i sent her a message telling her i thought her profile was interesting and to im me if she wanted. Two days later she ims me. conversation went pretty well, i negged hit her a couple of times, and when conversation was stalling i told her i had stuff to do and maybe i would send her another IM later.

Here's the problem, im in college on the far east coast and i live in the midwest. Most of you are thinking, "who cares youre in college, forget this chick." That is true, however getting ass in college is easy as cake, and I was hoping to set this chick up for over the summer.

My question is how do I go about communicating with her? Occassionally IM her from time to time, or just dont even bother talking to her unless im back in town.

Suggestions would be great.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shortstop22

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Originally posted by blueangel83
I thought you were the guy who sent me a message on myspace asking if they were my real photos, it was a different dude lol.
it's all good.
 

shortstop22

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alright then. I guess I'll just stay in contact with her but not over do it. Then try to arrange a meeting when I get back in town. I guess I just answered my own question. Later guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HMm... weird. I meant to reply to this one earlier today buy got distracted by a girl I was talking to on IRC. Heh, the irony.

Well, what I would suggest you do is keep talking to her online... but don't make any advances. Don't tell her you like her, don't ask her on any dates, etc. Just keep talking, teasing, y'know. All that stuff.

It's as simple as that.
 

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if getting a$$ in college is easy as cake, then why bother w/ this chick ? If your that much of a PUA then wait til college is over and rip some real game at clubs or parties.
 

PRMoon

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Ask for her phone number in a non stalker way and tell her you should hook up when she gets back in town over the summer. Since you have several months to do this, I would imagine working something like that in shouldn't be too difficult.
 

shortstop22

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
if getting a$$ in college is easy as cake, then why bother w/ this chick ? If your that much of a PUA then wait til college is over and rip some real game at clubs or parties.
Because I need ass when I get home over the summer. I go to school on the far east coast and live in the midwest.
 

Cheat_LBJ

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Originally posted by shortstop22
Because I need ass when I get home over the summer. I go to school on the far east coast and live in the midwest.
In every town, there are bars that local college kids/recent grads hang out at. Find that place where you live and go to work there.

The internet is the land of the broken toys when it comes to dating. Even if all you're looking for is a quick F, the effort you spend finding one would be better served just going and meeting real people.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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