"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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shortstop22

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hey guys, i saw this hb 7 on myspace, she's not really what many consider hot but she looks like the cute innocent type. anyway, i sent her a message telling her i thought her profile was interesting and to im me if she wanted. Two days later she ims me. conversation went pretty well, i negged hit her a couple of times, and when conversation was stalling i told her i had stuff to do and maybe i would send her another IM later.

Here's the problem, im in college on the far east coast and i live in the midwest. Most of you are thinking, "who cares youre in college, forget this chick." That is true, however getting ass in college is easy as cake, and I was hoping to set this chick up for over the summer.

My question is how do I go about communicating with her? Occassionally IM her from time to time, or just dont even bother talking to her unless im back in town.

Suggestions would be great.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shortstop22

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Originally posted by blueangel83
I thought you were the guy who sent me a message on myspace asking if they were my real photos, it was a different dude lol.
it's all good.
 

shortstop22

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alright then. I guess I'll just stay in contact with her but not over do it. Then try to arrange a meeting when I get back in town. I guess I just answered my own question. Later guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HMm... weird. I meant to reply to this one earlier today buy got distracted by a girl I was talking to on IRC. Heh, the irony.

Well, what I would suggest you do is keep talking to her online... but don't make any advances. Don't tell her you like her, don't ask her on any dates, etc. Just keep talking, teasing, y'know. All that stuff.

It's as simple as that.
 

Wiesman44

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if getting a$$ in college is easy as cake, then why bother w/ this chick ? If your that much of a PUA then wait til college is over and rip some real game at clubs or parties.
 

PRMoon

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Ask for her phone number in a non stalker way and tell her you should hook up when she gets back in town over the summer. Since you have several months to do this, I would imagine working something like that in shouldn't be too difficult.
 

shortstop22

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
if getting a$$ in college is easy as cake, then why bother w/ this chick ? If your that much of a PUA then wait til college is over and rip some real game at clubs or parties.
Because I need ass when I get home over the summer. I go to school on the far east coast and live in the midwest.
 

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Originally posted by shortstop22
Because I need ass when I get home over the summer. I go to school on the far east coast and live in the midwest.
In every town, there are bars that local college kids/recent grads hang out at. Find that place where you live and go to work there.

The internet is the land of the broken toys when it comes to dating. Even if all you're looking for is a quick F, the effort you spend finding one would be better served just going and meeting real people.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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