"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shortstop22

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hey guys, i saw this hb 7 on myspace, she's not really what many consider hot but she looks like the cute innocent type. anyway, i sent her a message telling her i thought her profile was interesting and to im me if she wanted. Two days later she ims me. conversation went pretty well, i negged hit her a couple of times, and when conversation was stalling i told her i had stuff to do and maybe i would send her another IM later.

Here's the problem, im in college on the far east coast and i live in the midwest. Most of you are thinking, "who cares youre in college, forget this chick." That is true, however getting ass in college is easy as cake, and I was hoping to set this chick up for over the summer.

My question is how do I go about communicating with her? Occassionally IM her from time to time, or just dont even bother talking to her unless im back in town.

Suggestions would be great.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shortstop22

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Originally posted by blueangel83
I thought you were the guy who sent me a message on myspace asking if they were my real photos, it was a different dude lol.
it's all good.
 

shortstop22

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alright then. I guess I'll just stay in contact with her but not over do it. Then try to arrange a meeting when I get back in town. I guess I just answered my own question. Later guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HMm... weird. I meant to reply to this one earlier today buy got distracted by a girl I was talking to on IRC. Heh, the irony.

Well, what I would suggest you do is keep talking to her online... but don't make any advances. Don't tell her you like her, don't ask her on any dates, etc. Just keep talking, teasing, y'know. All that stuff.

It's as simple as that.
 

Wiesman44

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if getting a$$ in college is easy as cake, then why bother w/ this chick ? If your that much of a PUA then wait til college is over and rip some real game at clubs or parties.
 

PRMoon

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Ask for her phone number in a non stalker way and tell her you should hook up when she gets back in town over the summer. Since you have several months to do this, I would imagine working something like that in shouldn't be too difficult.
 

shortstop22

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
if getting a$$ in college is easy as cake, then why bother w/ this chick ? If your that much of a PUA then wait til college is over and rip some real game at clubs or parties.
Because I need ass when I get home over the summer. I go to school on the far east coast and live in the midwest.
 

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Originally posted by shortstop22
Because I need ass when I get home over the summer. I go to school on the far east coast and live in the midwest.
In every town, there are bars that local college kids/recent grads hang out at. Find that place where you live and go to work there.

The internet is the land of the broken toys when it comes to dating. Even if all you're looking for is a quick F, the effort you spend finding one would be better served just going and meeting real people.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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