Sterling the Runner
Don Juan
Okay so school starts tommorow, so any suggesstions on how to act or approach or just anything useful.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
suggestions for first day of school
- Thread starter Sterling the Runner
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Black Casanova
Don Juan
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you know, Iwas gonna ask the same thing
But you know what?
if youve read wht is on the site, you already know.
You ust have to moticate yourself, and that can only come from within
But you know what?
if youve read wht is on the site, you already know.
You ust have to moticate yourself, and that can only come from within
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Grow some balls, just walk in like you own the fukking joint and sit next to the finest honey, and talk. It's not hard. Good luck.
Sterling the Runner
Don Juan
Okay then how bout some stories or examples.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Ok, fair enough.......
1) Walked into my History class, went up to a fine girl....
Me: You good at history?
Hb: Yeah, not bad
*I sit down*
Me: Right then, if you arn't i'll find someone else to copy off.
(Note: This girl made eyes at me, and i made it VERY obvious that i was joking at the last remark, don't offend them, plus i would never copy, i am too smart)
2) Went into German, sat down infront of two Hb's, and instead of initiating conversation, i started singing some Micheal Jackson. That soon got us laughing and talking.
3) In the common room, empty seat next to Hb, looks inviting doesn't it?, hell yes it does, so i sat down and got talking.
1) Walked into my History class, went up to a fine girl....
Me: You good at history?
Hb: Yeah, not bad
*I sit down*
Me: Right then, if you arn't i'll find someone else to copy off.
(Note: This girl made eyes at me, and i made it VERY obvious that i was joking at the last remark, don't offend them, plus i would never copy, i am too smart)
2) Went into German, sat down infront of two Hb's, and instead of initiating conversation, i started singing some Micheal Jackson. That soon got us laughing and talking.
3) In the common room, empty seat next to Hb, looks inviting doesn't it?, hell yes it does, so i sat down and got talking.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
Just have a good time and if you see a hot girl with a seat open next to her, sit there and initiate conversation.
Be friendly with your teachers as well, first impressions last the longest. It will help you throughout the rest of the year.
Be friendly with your teachers as well, first impressions last the longest. It will help you throughout the rest of the year.
Grandmaster Sexay
Don Juan
I was doing PE (Phyiscal Education). We were playing Tennis.
Teacher: I want you all to team up in pairs. Boy and girl only.
I saw this hot chick, so I went up to her
Me: I am willing to give you a game *wink*
Her: erm... ok
After playing for a while, she wasn't very good at Tennis I have to admit, so I helped her. I got to teach her how to swing the racket correctly which was a bit of kino and she thanked me in the end for my help. We ended up talking together and laughing in class later that day.
Thats all it takes. Just be confidence and keep your cool. Have a good day!.
Teacher: I want you all to team up in pairs. Boy and girl only.
I saw this hot chick, so I went up to her
Me: I am willing to give you a game *wink*
Her: erm... ok
After playing for a while, she wasn't very good at Tennis I have to admit, so I helped her. I got to teach her how to swing the racket correctly which was a bit of kino and she thanked me in the end for my help. We ended up talking together and laughing in class later that day.
Thats all it takes. Just be confidence and keep your cool. Have a good day!.