"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suggestions for escalation

TheBaconator

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Ok so i'm going to be chilling with this girl tonight at my house.

Background, we went out to dinner and a movie like 3 months ago and I was a total AFC, paid for everything (mind you this was be4 I found this site) and ended up getting a hook up and then flake outs the next two times I asked her to go out. I stopped talking to her for a while and now she has began initiating convo and seems interested again, so I tell her to come over tonight to chill.

Now what are some good moves I could use to get this girl to fcuk or get some head without making her feel slutty, also how to make her conphortable with my mother in the house while doing so. Any advice would be appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mikeyb

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One word: Kino.

The more of it you do, the more of it you (and she) will get comfortable with, and you'll naturally escalate. Eventually, you'll kiss her, and what you do after that is your own business ;).

If you need more specifics, search for "escalation" threads. There's got to be hundreds.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Well bro , make her feel comfortable .

Dont forget to kino her . For example i try to touch their face as much as i can .
When they say something funny i touch their faces i grab their faces like they were childrens . And i think she knows that something is gonna happen since she's coming to your house . So i dont think youll have problem escalating .

Cook something , watch a movie , sit her on lap and tell some interesting things in your computer .

Maybe watching movie is right time , just start smelling her and kissing her . I think you dont need tips how to escalate on kiss . So just escalate , start kissing , unwearing each other , try to convince that everything your doing is normal process that brings joy. If she gives you LMR ( last minute rezistence ) dont fight it logically (as mystery says ) . Personally , i never had LMR . Girls that come to my house they come just to have sex.

Hope everything will go okey .

PS: DONT BE ***** :cuss: MAKE YOUR MOVES , DONT BE SCARED TO ESCALATE.IS NORMAL PROCESS . AND IM SURE SHE KNOWS THAT YOUR GONNA ESCALATE ON HER .
 
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