"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suggestions for escalation

TheBaconator

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Ok so i'm going to be chilling with this girl tonight at my house.

Background, we went out to dinner and a movie like 3 months ago and I was a total AFC, paid for everything (mind you this was be4 I found this site) and ended up getting a hook up and then flake outs the next two times I asked her to go out. I stopped talking to her for a while and now she has began initiating convo and seems interested again, so I tell her to come over tonight to chill.

Now what are some good moves I could use to get this girl to fcuk or get some head without making her feel slutty, also how to make her conphortable with my mother in the house while doing so. Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mikeyb

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One word: Kino.

The more of it you do, the more of it you (and she) will get comfortable with, and you'll naturally escalate. Eventually, you'll kiss her, and what you do after that is your own business ;).

If you need more specifics, search for "escalation" threads. There's got to be hundreds.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Well bro , make her feel comfortable .

Dont forget to kino her . For example i try to touch their face as much as i can .
When they say something funny i touch their faces i grab their faces like they were childrens . And i think she knows that something is gonna happen since she's coming to your house . So i dont think youll have problem escalating .

Cook something , watch a movie , sit her on lap and tell some interesting things in your computer .

Maybe watching movie is right time , just start smelling her and kissing her . I think you dont need tips how to escalate on kiss . So just escalate , start kissing , unwearing each other , try to convince that everything your doing is normal process that brings joy. If she gives you LMR ( last minute rezistence ) dont fight it logically (as mystery says ) . Personally , i never had LMR . Girls that come to my house they come just to have sex.

Hope everything will go okey .

PS: DONT BE ***** :cuss: MAKE YOUR MOVES , DONT BE SCARED TO ESCALATE.IS NORMAL PROCESS . AND IM SURE SHE KNOWS THAT YOUR GONNA ESCALATE ON HER .
 
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