"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, this pertains to yesterday evening when I had to deposit a cheque at a bank yesterday evening, so I went to the ATM. Since I didn’t understand a certain aspect of filling up the form, I went to the bank branch, went out of turn to the counter and saw this chick behind the counter helping her friend with some money. I called her out and gave my query. In between the filling up of the form, I found out her name and also the fact she was from an adjacent town. Chickened out on asking her for phone no there and then.

Do you guys think I should've asked her phone no? Kind of like by saying," You know what, you're very pretty and extremely helpful and I'd like to know you more. Mind if we meet sometime?"
The reason i chickened out was that I thought she may refuse it in front of her co -workers.

Any suggestions anyone on how to improve?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol you could have said,

'Since you work so well with digits, can I have yours?'

:lol:
 

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bigw said:
lol you could have said,

'Since you work so well with digits, can I have yours?'

:lol:
lol...

but what about the fact that she will give it in front of her co workers. She wouldnt want to be precieved as a slut or someone whos easy. I mean a random guy just walks up and she gives him her no?

And before you say it i know i 'm being an AFC out here , but i really neeed to get it out of my system.
 

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Then just do it and if she gives it to you, great. If she doesn't, move on.

Simple no?
 

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thanks

bigw said:
Then just do it and if she gives it to you, great. If she doesn't, move on.

Simple no?

i guess you're right..

thanks a ton..


i'll definately incorporate these suggestions...and sarge more
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no worries :)

Just remember not to try to 'plan' so much, usually if you do this you risk falling harder.
 
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