"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, this pertains to yesterday evening when I had to deposit a cheque at a bank yesterday evening, so I went to the ATM. Since I didn’t understand a certain aspect of filling up the form, I went to the bank branch, went out of turn to the counter and saw this chick behind the counter helping her friend with some money. I called her out and gave my query. In between the filling up of the form, I found out her name and also the fact she was from an adjacent town. Chickened out on asking her for phone no there and then.

Do you guys think I should've asked her phone no? Kind of like by saying," You know what, you're very pretty and extremely helpful and I'd like to know you more. Mind if we meet sometime?"
The reason i chickened out was that I thought she may refuse it in front of her co -workers.

Any suggestions anyone on how to improve?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol you could have said,

'Since you work so well with digits, can I have yours?'

:lol:
 

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bigw said:
lol you could have said,

'Since you work so well with digits, can I have yours?'

:lol:
lol...

but what about the fact that she will give it in front of her co workers. She wouldnt want to be precieved as a slut or someone whos easy. I mean a random guy just walks up and she gives him her no?

And before you say it i know i 'm being an AFC out here , but i really neeed to get it out of my system.
 

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Then just do it and if she gives it to you, great. If she doesn't, move on.

Simple no?
 

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thanks

bigw said:
Then just do it and if she gives it to you, great. If she doesn't, move on.

Simple no?

i guess you're right..

thanks a ton..


i'll definately incorporate these suggestions...and sarge more
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no worries :)

Just remember not to try to 'plan' so much, usually if you do this you risk falling harder.
 
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