“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Suggestion: Replace count system with post rating system...

Demon

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No. Bad suggestion. Die.

I'd prefer a rating system to a post count system though. For instance, this message is practically worthless if not for this suggestion. Yet it's still included in the post count. I'd rather have people rate posts. There would be an Avg. (Post) Rating of 0 to 5 stars and how many posts were rated.

Is that understandable? I'm just thinking this up as I go.

By the way, I think the user rating system is also faulty as it doesn't really average the user's contributions to the community. It only averages the user's popularity amongst the community.

Each rated post must count towards the average user rating else a rating system will fail. Example:

SoSuave.com
Adminstrator

Registered: Genesis
Location: SoSuave.com
Avg. Post Rating: * * * * *
Posts Rated: 4,341,985
The asterisks would become graphical stars though. :)

Only the rated posts would count in the post rating. All other posts not rated would not count.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mack Of All Trades

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I have no idea what you just said....
 

Demon

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Basically, only the important posts count towards your post count. But there wouldn't be a post count! It would just be:

SoSuave.com
Adminstrator

Registered: Genesis
Location: SoSuave.com
Avg. Post Rating: * * * * *
Posts Rated: 4,341,985

Your info would just show how many of your posts were rated and the average post rating. You wouldn't be allowed to rate your own posts so cheating would be a little difficult.

This would also fix the ranking system so that the real Master Don Juans receive the title they EARNED instead of just getting 500 posts.
 

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They have a similar post rating system on www.airliners.net. Each user has a respect rating (RR) under their screen name. The higher people rate your POSTS, the higher your RR.
 

Nocturnal

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i think what would make this a lot better would be if a poster was anonymous to the reader (option the poster could select) until the reader rated his post. that way newbies aren't rated so harshly and the old veterans dont get 5 stars for a stupid idea.

however, allen's not going to do any of it. what more could he want? people love it here :D.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Liz

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Originally posted by Demon
Allen's been acting strangely lately. I'm assuming just toward me... probably something to do with De La Soul.
Maybe it has something to do with the fact he doesn't like you? Maybe....
 
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