"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Suggestion on next DJ book?

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It's time for my next book, I was wondering what's a good read along the lines of being a DJ.

I've read quite a few works out there, including all of the Double your Dating series, Mystery Method, Swing Cat, The game.

My last read, however, was by far the best. And it wasn't even a seduction book. Rather it was a pyschology/self-improvement book called, "Evolve your Brain." It talks at lengths about the plasticity of your brain, and how one can erase negative thinking and replace it with more positive-confident thoughts. Seriously, this book can change your life, and it's all backed up by neuro-science. Ever wonder how some people, who had so little hope, were able to drastically turn around their life for the better? Or how we are able to almost completely transform ourselves into an entirely different person? Well, this books explains that.

Lately I've been more interested in pyschology and self-impriovement rather than seduction or pick-up books. I feel more drawn to this area, as I think it will benefit a DJ in more areas. I was thinking about getting the "48 Laws of Power." It's getting such high reviews on this board. Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This book is in some way like the books you're into right now, it focuses on yourself rather than women. http://alphamalesystem.com/?hop=djcenter

100% realistic, 100% useful... Beware, as you become more real man hags and fags become to hate you... Can you picture a fat girl hating your guts and throwing tantrums because she can't have you? Picture a gay dude doing that.. That is my reality at my post office, I go there daily. :rockon:
 

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Pook is great if you're a noob who needs a reality check. I think sandow is past that

to the OP, you're probably at the point where another seduction book is not gonna be life changing. what other specific areas of your life do you wanna improve?

also I have a copy of the 48 Laws of Power and even though it's popular and looks cool, there are more practical books out there to cater to specific areas - career, health, etc. the book is just a fun read, that's all
 

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Obsidian said:
umm, Book of Pook. duh.
Thanks, already read it. Not all that it's hyped up to be, nonetheless still a good, solid read.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Get the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene who is also the author of 48 Laws of Power.

I have both books and they're both excellent.

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar is by far the greatest DJ book you can ever buy though in terms of fully awakening from the matrix and unravelling the mystery of women which isn't really much of a mystery after all.
 

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One of the better self help book I have read recently was the infinite self - 33 steps to reclaiming your inner power by Stuart Wilde.

The steps vary from not defending something, to philosophical discipline, to centering the mind. Taoism at it's finest.

I recommend reading ALL of Stuart Wilde's books. He will change the way you thik about thinking.


http://www.amazon.com/Infinite-Self-Stuart-Wilde/dp/1561703494

www.stuartwilde.com

Other then that check out the torrent sites.
http://www.mininova.org/


A few of my recent finds

http://www.fulldls.com/torrent-ebooks-24169.html

http://www.mininova.org/tor/933858

http://www.mininova.org/tor/807286

http://www.mininova.org/tor/985538

http://www.mininova.org/tor/627972




There are those who are motivated purely by financial gain, and not by their compassion. Additionally, they either give intentionally bad advice to keep you consuming their media, or are so psychologically damaged that they hurt themselves or others more than they help. Men like

David DeAngelo,
Ross Jeffries,
Carlos Xuma,
Mystery,
Rob J.,
the men of RSD,
and most of the people in "The Game"
(including the alter ego style, but
not the man Neil Strauss).

I have read the work of all these "men" and can not recommend even bothering with their work. Everything you need to know is covered by, conventional wisdom, Neil Strauss (the Jugglers method), wikihow / wikipedia, and the bible.

If you have the time or need more to balance your life and get on track, let me suggest the following:

read a ROMANCE NOVEL from the library, this is how your girl wants to feel
Stephane's Newsletter from IdeaGasms (ideagasms.net)
ome page - http://www.ideagasms.net/ideagasms-home/
watch the ENTIRE Girlfriend.Training.Program by Stephane of IdeaGasms
I like what Stephane from Ideagasms teaches about being a real man. he´s one of the few people in this scene who really have something to say. Check out some Interviews in Youtube.

Cool stuff. Ying mixes with ying but yang not with yang biggrin.gif I also like the girlfriend Training programme but the Video about being an unreasonable man is the ****! Stephanes Interview with David D is also very good. Stephanes Girlfriend isnt my type but somehow she´s sweet.

By the way, Ross Jeffries Patterns are very effective! A lot of the stuff from the fastseduction.com site comes from him! Greg had some guest appearences in David D´s Programmes!

David Shade's Newsletter (davidshade.com)
Cliff's List Newsletter - caveat emptor most is crap (cliffslist.com)
Juggler (charismaarts.com)
fastseduction.com
blogs of these authors or blogs in general
the bible / torah (you might ask how my religion and seduction coexist. How do YOUR morals and seduction coexist?)
Honor by James Bowman
any guy books that are about taking risks, doing your duty, military, adventures, or that make you feel manly in general
maybe some NLP stuff


authors i have not fully read yet i dont think you need these nutcases:
IN10SE (or Twotimer), Badboy, Shark, PlayboyLA, Tyler Durden, Carlos Xuma, Swinggcat, Steve Piccus, Sinn, Savoy, Hypnotica(or Rasputin) and Zan Perrion
 
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Sandow said:
It's time for my next book, I was wondering what's a good read along the lines of being a DJ.

I've read quite a few works out there, including all of the Double your Dating series, Mystery Method, Swing Cat, The game.

My last read, however, was by far the best. And it wasn't even a seduction book. Rather it was a pyschology/self-improvement book called, "Evolve your Brain." It talks at lengths about the plasticity of your brain, and how one can erase negative thinking and replace it with more positive-confident thoughts. Seriously, this book can change your life, and it's all backed up by neuro-science. Ever wonder how some people, who had so little hope, were able to drastically turn around their life for the better? Or how we are able to almost completely transform ourselves into an entirely different person? Well, this books explains that.

Lately I've been more interested in pyschology and self-impriovement rather than seduction or pick-up books. I feel more drawn to this area, as I think it will benefit a DJ in more areas. I was thinking about getting the "48 Laws of Power." It's getting such high reviews on this board. Any suggestions?
is that book by Joe Dispenza? I think that will be my next read
 

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moto said:
is that book by Joe Dispenza? I think that will be my next read

Yes. I highly recommend it. It'll boost up your confidence more than any of the seduction books out there. Profound information that's backed up by real science rather than theory.

There are some chapters in the middle which you can skip, unless you are trying to get a ph.d! (To make his work credible he briefly explains how the neurons in your brain work, which really isn't that hard to understand). The rest of the book is an easy read. You're going to be surprised at all the information that is revealed, since nueroscience is a relatively unknown discipline and is rapidly growing with new exciting information.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Moto if you're interested in one of the best Tony Robbin's books around get Awaken the Giant Within.

Actually its both a book and one of his CD's so you could get it either on CD form where he talks and you can hear him or book form where you just read it.
 
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