"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's time for my next book, I was wondering what's a good read along the lines of being a DJ.

I've read quite a few works out there, including all of the Double your Dating series, Mystery Method, Swing Cat, The game.

My last read, however, was by far the best. And it wasn't even a seduction book. Rather it was a pyschology/self-improvement book called, "Evolve your Brain." It talks at lengths about the plasticity of your brain, and how one can erase negative thinking and replace it with more positive-confident thoughts. Seriously, this book can change your life, and it's all backed up by neuro-science. Ever wonder how some people, who had so little hope, were able to drastically turn around their life for the better? Or how we are able to almost completely transform ourselves into an entirely different person? Well, this books explains that.

Lately I've been more interested in pyschology and self-impriovement rather than seduction or pick-up books. I feel more drawn to this area, as I think it will benefit a DJ in more areas. I was thinking about getting the "48 Laws of Power." It's getting such high reviews on this board. Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This book is in some way like the books you're into right now, it focuses on yourself rather than women. http://alphamalesystem.com/?hop=djcenter

100% realistic, 100% useful... Beware, as you become more real man hags and fags become to hate you... Can you picture a fat girl hating your guts and throwing tantrums because she can't have you? Picture a gay dude doing that.. That is my reality at my post office, I go there daily. :rockon:
 

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Pook is great if you're a noob who needs a reality check. I think sandow is past that

to the OP, you're probably at the point where another seduction book is not gonna be life changing. what other specific areas of your life do you wanna improve?

also I have a copy of the 48 Laws of Power and even though it's popular and looks cool, there are more practical books out there to cater to specific areas - career, health, etc. the book is just a fun read, that's all
 

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Obsidian said:
umm, Book of Pook. duh.
Thanks, already read it. Not all that it's hyped up to be, nonetheless still a good, solid read.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene who is also the author of 48 Laws of Power.

I have both books and they're both excellent.

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar is by far the greatest DJ book you can ever buy though in terms of fully awakening from the matrix and unravelling the mystery of women which isn't really much of a mystery after all.
 

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One of the better self help book I have read recently was the infinite self - 33 steps to reclaiming your inner power by Stuart Wilde.

The steps vary from not defending something, to philosophical discipline, to centering the mind. Taoism at it's finest.

I recommend reading ALL of Stuart Wilde's books. He will change the way you thik about thinking.


http://www.amazon.com/Infinite-Self-Stuart-Wilde/dp/1561703494

www.stuartwilde.com

Other then that check out the torrent sites.
http://www.mininova.org/


A few of my recent finds

http://www.fulldls.com/torrent-ebooks-24169.html

http://www.mininova.org/tor/933858

http://www.mininova.org/tor/807286

http://www.mininova.org/tor/985538

http://www.mininova.org/tor/627972




There are those who are motivated purely by financial gain, and not by their compassion. Additionally, they either give intentionally bad advice to keep you consuming their media, or are so psychologically damaged that they hurt themselves or others more than they help. Men like

David DeAngelo,
Ross Jeffries,
Carlos Xuma,
Mystery,
Rob J.,
the men of RSD,
and most of the people in "The Game"
(including the alter ego style, but
not the man Neil Strauss).

I have read the work of all these "men" and can not recommend even bothering with their work. Everything you need to know is covered by, conventional wisdom, Neil Strauss (the Jugglers method), wikihow / wikipedia, and the bible.

If you have the time or need more to balance your life and get on track, let me suggest the following:

read a ROMANCE NOVEL from the library, this is how your girl wants to feel
Stephane's Newsletter from IdeaGasms (ideagasms.net)
ome page - http://www.ideagasms.net/ideagasms-home/
watch the ENTIRE Girlfriend.Training.Program by Stephane of IdeaGasms
I like what Stephane from Ideagasms teaches about being a real man. he´s one of the few people in this scene who really have something to say. Check out some Interviews in Youtube.

Cool stuff. Ying mixes with ying but yang not with yang biggrin.gif I also like the girlfriend Training programme but the Video about being an unreasonable man is the ****! Stephanes Interview with David D is also very good. Stephanes Girlfriend isnt my type but somehow she´s sweet.

By the way, Ross Jeffries Patterns are very effective! A lot of the stuff from the fastseduction.com site comes from him! Greg had some guest appearences in David D´s Programmes!

David Shade's Newsletter (davidshade.com)
Cliff's List Newsletter - caveat emptor most is crap (cliffslist.com)
Juggler (charismaarts.com)
fastseduction.com
blogs of these authors or blogs in general
the bible / torah (you might ask how my religion and seduction coexist. How do YOUR morals and seduction coexist?)
Honor by James Bowman
any guy books that are about taking risks, doing your duty, military, adventures, or that make you feel manly in general
maybe some NLP stuff


authors i have not fully read yet i dont think you need these nutcases:
IN10SE (or Twotimer), Badboy, Shark, PlayboyLA, Tyler Durden, Carlos Xuma, Swinggcat, Steve Piccus, Sinn, Savoy, Hypnotica(or Rasputin) and Zan Perrion
 
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Sandow said:
It's time for my next book, I was wondering what's a good read along the lines of being a DJ.

I've read quite a few works out there, including all of the Double your Dating series, Mystery Method, Swing Cat, The game.

My last read, however, was by far the best. And it wasn't even a seduction book. Rather it was a pyschology/self-improvement book called, "Evolve your Brain." It talks at lengths about the plasticity of your brain, and how one can erase negative thinking and replace it with more positive-confident thoughts. Seriously, this book can change your life, and it's all backed up by neuro-science. Ever wonder how some people, who had so little hope, were able to drastically turn around their life for the better? Or how we are able to almost completely transform ourselves into an entirely different person? Well, this books explains that.

Lately I've been more interested in pyschology and self-impriovement rather than seduction or pick-up books. I feel more drawn to this area, as I think it will benefit a DJ in more areas. I was thinking about getting the "48 Laws of Power." It's getting such high reviews on this board. Any suggestions?
is that book by Joe Dispenza? I think that will be my next read
 

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moto said:
is that book by Joe Dispenza? I think that will be my next read

Yes. I highly recommend it. It'll boost up your confidence more than any of the seduction books out there. Profound information that's backed up by real science rather than theory.

There are some chapters in the middle which you can skip, unless you are trying to get a ph.d! (To make his work credible he briefly explains how the neurons in your brain work, which really isn't that hard to understand). The rest of the book is an easy read. You're going to be surprised at all the information that is revealed, since nueroscience is a relatively unknown discipline and is rapidly growing with new exciting information.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Moto if you're interested in one of the best Tony Robbin's books around get Awaken the Giant Within.

Actually its both a book and one of his CD's so you could get it either on CD form where he talks and you can hear him or book form where you just read it.
 
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