spider_007
Master Don Juan
put a limit on how many times a person can post per day, and how many threads he can make per day (thread 2, posts 5-10)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
suggestion for Mr Sosuave
- Thread starter spider_007
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm hoping Mr. SoSuave is dusting off his handy-dandy DNS tools and can track and ban the entire subnet from the source for a while. File a petition under CAN SPAM act and get the ISP to ban the user....but that would be mean wounldn't it?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
I dont think we need to get a limit of 2 threads per day, how ever there should certainly be if notihng else a 30 second time limit between posts because although that spamming was harmless, if it was an automated attack by a computer it could potentialy bring down the site!
You can't punish everybody just because someone is a troll.spider_007 said:
The best solution available would be to enroll a couple of new moderators in order to have the forum best moderated (note: I'm not blaming on the actual moderators, since they do a great job here, but obviously they can't spend their entire day on a board that helps people to have a better social life).
Putting a limit would just reduce the amount of answers for people who are asking for solid advice.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
-there is no reason to post more then 5 THREADS in one day. Absolutly no reason!!!! If you have a question, do a search.....if you can't find it or the question is specific to you, then post it!!!Adone said:
-there is no reason to post more then 10 times a day, "answering questions". It's all been said. READ THE BIBLE. And if you ain't got notti'n smart to say, don't say it.
OH AND HERE IS ANOTHER SUGGESTION, just to make the reputation thing work better.
Make it so if somebody gets a bad (or good) reputation, he can't go back and retaliate that same hour. Make him wait couple of days.
Well, that's part of their business. Personally, I don't come here to learn how to pick up girls anymore. Sometimes, I go to Don Juan Tips and I offer my point of view about the tips posted. I don't visit High School Forum and Don Juan Forum, because there's not much to learn anymore for me, yet I'm not good enough to give advice yet. The Forums I usually surf are Health & Fitness and Anything Else and there are times when I post more than 5 times a day, although I have never been accused of spamming or of being a KBJ. Plus, I visit this board many times a day, but I also do lots of other things. I come here just when I want to relax a bit.Shezz said: