spider_007
Master Don Juan
put a limit on how many times a person can post per day, and how many threads he can make per day (thread 2, posts 5-10)
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
suggestion for Mr Sosuave
- Thread starter spider_007
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm hoping Mr. SoSuave is dusting off his handy-dandy DNS tools and can track and ban the entire subnet from the source for a while. File a petition under CAN SPAM act and get the ISP to ban the user....but that would be mean wounldn't it?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
I dont think we need to get a limit of 2 threads per day, how ever there should certainly be if notihng else a 30 second time limit between posts because although that spamming was harmless, if it was an automated attack by a computer it could potentialy bring down the site!
You can't punish everybody just because someone is a troll.spider_007 said:
The best solution available would be to enroll a couple of new moderators in order to have the forum best moderated (note: I'm not blaming on the actual moderators, since they do a great job here, but obviously they can't spend their entire day on a board that helps people to have a better social life).
Putting a limit would just reduce the amount of answers for people who are asking for solid advice.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
-there is no reason to post more then 5 THREADS in one day. Absolutly no reason!!!! If you have a question, do a search.....if you can't find it or the question is specific to you, then post it!!!Adone said:
-there is no reason to post more then 10 times a day, "answering questions". It's all been said. READ THE BIBLE. And if you ain't got notti'n smart to say, don't say it.
OH AND HERE IS ANOTHER SUGGESTION, just to make the reputation thing work better.
Make it so if somebody gets a bad (or good) reputation, he can't go back and retaliate that same hour. Make him wait couple of days.
Well, that's part of their business. Personally, I don't come here to learn how to pick up girls anymore. Sometimes, I go to Don Juan Tips and I offer my point of view about the tips posted. I don't visit High School Forum and Don Juan Forum, because there's not much to learn anymore for me, yet I'm not good enough to give advice yet. The Forums I usually surf are Health & Fitness and Anything Else and there are times when I post more than 5 times a day, although I have never been accused of spamming or of being a KBJ. Plus, I visit this board many times a day, but I also do lots of other things. I come here just when I want to relax a bit.Shezz said: