"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suggested viewing for UK DJs

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I have recently watched a TV programme called "Would Like to Meet", which gives some excellent advice on dating, body language, indicators of interest, where and how to meet women and how to flirt.

The special thing about it is that you get to see all this stuff put to the test in real scenarios, including failures as well as successes.

The programme is quite difficult to catch, especially if you don't have digital, but there's more information here:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/tv/wltm.shtml

I know there are a lot of guys here who, for some reason, refuse to take advice from a female, but Tracy Cox really knows what she is talking about and exposes a few female "rules" and "secrets".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was going to suggest that ages ago. Good tip. NB: Tracey Cox is quite fit aswell.
 
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Have I been watching the same programme?

As far as I could make out it was 90% women in that series, and when it was a bloke it was standard AFC approach BS.

They put some weedy guy in combat trousers and he looked like a bag of sh1t tied up in the middle.

Also Tracy Cox was getting a little plump. However I noticed on her latest show where they put cameras in the bedroom to show them having/not having sex :rolleyes: she's lost a good ten pounds, nice one Tracy (is she single?).

Also, is it me, or to be an 'Expert' rolled out on UK TV it's imperative that you are either Austrailian or South African?

What we need is a DJ extreme series. Get one of these Newbie suicide cases who post and really go to town on them DJ styles.

See if they end up porking a hottie:p
 
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