"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Suggested viewing for UK DJs

Jariel

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I have recently watched a TV programme called "Would Like to Meet", which gives some excellent advice on dating, body language, indicators of interest, where and how to meet women and how to flirt.

The special thing about it is that you get to see all this stuff put to the test in real scenarios, including failures as well as successes.

The programme is quite difficult to catch, especially if you don't have digital, but there's more information here:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/tv/wltm.shtml

I know there are a lot of guys here who, for some reason, refuse to take advice from a female, but Tracy Cox really knows what she is talking about and exposes a few female "rules" and "secrets".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was going to suggest that ages ago. Good tip. NB: Tracey Cox is quite fit aswell.
 

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Have I been watching the same programme?

As far as I could make out it was 90% women in that series, and when it was a bloke it was standard AFC approach BS.

They put some weedy guy in combat trousers and he looked like a bag of sh1t tied up in the middle.

Also Tracy Cox was getting a little plump. However I noticed on her latest show where they put cameras in the bedroom to show them having/not having sex :rolleyes: she's lost a good ten pounds, nice one Tracy (is she single?).

Also, is it me, or to be an 'Expert' rolled out on UK TV it's imperative that you are either Austrailian or South African?

What we need is a DJ extreme series. Get one of these Newbie suicide cases who post and really go to town on them DJ styles.

See if they end up porking a hottie:p
 
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