"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suggested viewing for UK DJs

Jariel

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I have recently watched a TV programme called "Would Like to Meet", which gives some excellent advice on dating, body language, indicators of interest, where and how to meet women and how to flirt.

The special thing about it is that you get to see all this stuff put to the test in real scenarios, including failures as well as successes.

The programme is quite difficult to catch, especially if you don't have digital, but there's more information here:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/tv/wltm.shtml

I know there are a lot of guys here who, for some reason, refuse to take advice from a female, but Tracy Cox really knows what she is talking about and exposes a few female "rules" and "secrets".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was going to suggest that ages ago. Good tip. NB: Tracey Cox is quite fit aswell.
 

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Have I been watching the same programme?

As far as I could make out it was 90% women in that series, and when it was a bloke it was standard AFC approach BS.

They put some weedy guy in combat trousers and he looked like a bag of sh1t tied up in the middle.

Also Tracy Cox was getting a little plump. However I noticed on her latest show where they put cameras in the bedroom to show them having/not having sex :rolleyes: she's lost a good ten pounds, nice one Tracy (is she single?).

Also, is it me, or to be an 'Expert' rolled out on UK TV it's imperative that you are either Austrailian or South African?

What we need is a DJ extreme series. Get one of these Newbie suicide cases who post and really go to town on them DJ styles.

See if they end up porking a hottie:p
 
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