"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Suggest some good haircut for 190cm 23 male

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I cant say if i describe stuff to hairdresser wrong but here are two places with hairdressers and in each there are like 3 hairdresers (total 6 people) and maybe one of them does good job...


What haircut would you recommend?


I already have a workaround for it. I always go for a date in hoodie (lol). but they dont see my head/face/haircut and the connection between us might be too small


But I want to look good too
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Depends on the shape of your head. Go to a Salon and ask their opinion.

And stop wearing hoodies on dates, bro. That sounds really wierd.

I have a bald head and I never hide it.
 
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Ok, gotcha. I shave my head bald, and I typically wear a beanie on dates, but I always make a point to take it off at some time during the date to 'rub my head.'

Though, I forgot to on my last date, now that I think of it. I will on my next.

It's a Seinfeld joke. George Costanza wears a hat in one episode. Funny sh1t.

I always try to show chicks what they're getting up front, that way the rejection comes sooner, rather than later...go ahead and get it out of the way.
 

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Ok, gotcha. I shave my head bald, and I typically wear a beanie on dates, but I always make a point to take it off at some time during the date to 'rub my head.'

Though, I forgot to on my last date, now that I think of it. I will on my next.

It's a Seinfeld joke. George Costanza wears a hat in one episode. Funny sh1t.

I always try to show chicks what they're getting up front, that way the rejection comes sooner, rather than later...go ahead and get it out of the way.
Haha! Sure but my haircut can wait till we cuddle and she releases some oxytocin so she will feel in love with me first
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I always try to show chicks what they're getting up front, that way the rejection comes sooner, rather than later...go ahead and get it out of the way.
Ever since I've started shaving my head, I've gotten nothing but good reactions. My confidence has gone up too, weirdly.
 

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It depends on the shape of your head/face and your hairline, it also plays a role the kind of man that you are.

A tall muscular black guy looks fine with a shaved head so does a bulky squared jaw white man...not that good on a skinny white man with pale skin and weak facial traits.

Same thing with modern cuts like almost shaves sides and back and long hair pulled back on top, it depends on who you are.

Can you show us any picture? or at least someone that looks similar to you?
 
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