"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Suggest some good haircut for 190cm 23 male

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I cant say if i describe stuff to hairdresser wrong but here are two places with hairdressers and in each there are like 3 hairdresers (total 6 people) and maybe one of them does good job...


What haircut would you recommend?


I already have a workaround for it. I always go for a date in hoodie (lol). but they dont see my head/face/haircut and the connection between us might be too small


But I want to look good too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends on the shape of your head. Go to a Salon and ask their opinion.

And stop wearing hoodies on dates, bro. That sounds really wierd.

I have a bald head and I never hide it.
 
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Ok, gotcha. I shave my head bald, and I typically wear a beanie on dates, but I always make a point to take it off at some time during the date to 'rub my head.'

Though, I forgot to on my last date, now that I think of it. I will on my next.

It's a Seinfeld joke. George Costanza wears a hat in one episode. Funny sh1t.

I always try to show chicks what they're getting up front, that way the rejection comes sooner, rather than later...go ahead and get it out of the way.
 

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Ok, gotcha. I shave my head bald, and I typically wear a beanie on dates, but I always make a point to take it off at some time during the date to 'rub my head.'

Though, I forgot to on my last date, now that I think of it. I will on my next.

It's a Seinfeld joke. George Costanza wears a hat in one episode. Funny sh1t.

I always try to show chicks what they're getting up front, that way the rejection comes sooner, rather than later...go ahead and get it out of the way.
Haha! Sure but my haircut can wait till we cuddle and she releases some oxytocin so she will feel in love with me first
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I always try to show chicks what they're getting up front, that way the rejection comes sooner, rather than later...go ahead and get it out of the way.
Ever since I've started shaving my head, I've gotten nothing but good reactions. My confidence has gone up too, weirdly.
 

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It depends on the shape of your head/face and your hairline, it also plays a role the kind of man that you are.

A tall muscular black guy looks fine with a shaved head so does a bulky squared jaw white man...not that good on a skinny white man with pale skin and weak facial traits.

Same thing with modern cuts like almost shaves sides and back and long hair pulled back on top, it depends on who you are.

Can you show us any picture? or at least someone that looks similar to you?
 
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