"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sugestion for new section

saigonheadache

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Dear mods, I really think a section called "Her mind (her world, brain, etc.) is a must on this site. A place where members could analyze and break down the way women think and their psychology in general. I'm surprised there isnt one yet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent

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1st off, mods don't create forum, thats up to allen

2nd off, thats the point of the bible and the discussion forum
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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we could have so many diffrent forums like this, we could create 20 new ones, but all that would do is give us 20 unused forums and would mean that the average number of readers per forum falls which will degrade the quality of the forums.

if you wanted to re do the bible with a better contents page then im all for that!
 

AFK Protector

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The whole point of DJing is to not care about what women or anyone for that matter, think of you as a person. Overanalyzing women is not good...cuz you'll be self-conscious of yourself and always thinkgin "omgwtf is she thinking i'm too loud omfg...damn i just **** my pants. .aww"

So, instead of creating a new section, I think...

THAT YOU SHOULD READ THE GODDAM BIBLE.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heizen

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Analyzing a womans mind is the job for a PUA.

We are here to be Don Juans, not PUAs.
 
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