"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sugestion for new section

saigonheadache

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Dear mods, I really think a section called "Her mind (her world, brain, etc.) is a must on this site. A place where members could analyze and break down the way women think and their psychology in general. I'm surprised there isnt one yet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vincent

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1st off, mods don't create forum, thats up to allen

2nd off, thats the point of the bible and the discussion forum
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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we could have so many diffrent forums like this, we could create 20 new ones, but all that would do is give us 20 unused forums and would mean that the average number of readers per forum falls which will degrade the quality of the forums.

if you wanted to re do the bible with a better contents page then im all for that!
 

AFK Protector

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The whole point of DJing is to not care about what women or anyone for that matter, think of you as a person. Overanalyzing women is not good...cuz you'll be self-conscious of yourself and always thinkgin "omgwtf is she thinking i'm too loud omfg...damn i just **** my pants. .aww"

So, instead of creating a new section, I think...

THAT YOU SHOULD READ THE GODDAM BIBLE.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Heizen

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Analyzing a womans mind is the job for a PUA.

We are here to be Don Juans, not PUAs.
 
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