"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cavedweller

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I would judge to say that I am the oldest guy on this board, so, with that being said a little advice here for you mature dudes:

Beware when dating younger chicks...Most of them are just looking for a 'sugar daddy'...

ie: You have to learn the rules if you are going to play that game.

cavedweller
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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If you're the oldest guy on this board, I wonder where the older guys are - guys in their 60s and such.

Maybe they don't know how to use a computer? Maybe since women live longer than men, they find themselves with near unlimited options at that age group? Maybe when they've seen women their own age they've lost interest? Or maybe their testosterone is so low they've lost interest period?

Regarding the point of your post, I'm sure there is a lot of that going around. But if an older guy is dating a younger woman, chances are good that he's going to have more resources than she is. So what are you going to do?

I have a younger girlfriend that I live with. I'm pretty certain she is mainly attracted to my personality. We have several things in common and similar values. But I'm sure my superior financial situation make her feel safe too, and I'm sure she likes that. It is what it is.
 

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Dear Zecko,
"Maybe since women live longer than men, they find themselves with near unlimited options at that age group?You are right,but sadly many of the older girls,have lost their Libido,sadly because looking around there are many very attractive Women in their sixties...without wishing to appear too smug,it really does get better as you get older....I dance and can still pull women in their fourties....I only go with Chinese girls these days...they are Gods greatest gift to Men,These fat Caucasian cat herders,have so many hang ups yet feel so entitled,that it isn't worth the candle.
 

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Cat herders?
 

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Agree with Scaramouch. Asian girls age so much better. I can't count the number of times I've seen a tight bodied hottie from behind, popped a woody in my pants, only to catch up to her and find out she's in her 40's/50's.

Desperate housewife heaven.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dear Zecko,
"Cat Herders?" Yeah at about the age of menopause some of these old girls despairing of ever getting a Man to boss around transfer their attention to Cats.
 

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They are ALL looking for a “sugar daddy” regardless of age. If you do well your income is a huge carrot that no woman can resist. "Carrot management" is a critical skill.
 

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Wearing Armani last night.. yeah, it definitely made a difference on the first impressions.

Then as always your game has to take it further
 
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