"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would judge to say that I am the oldest guy on this board, so, with that being said a little advice here for you mature dudes:

Beware when dating younger chicks...Most of them are just looking for a 'sugar daddy'...

ie: You have to learn the rules if you are going to play that game.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're the oldest guy on this board, I wonder where the older guys are - guys in their 60s and such.

Maybe they don't know how to use a computer? Maybe since women live longer than men, they find themselves with near unlimited options at that age group? Maybe when they've seen women their own age they've lost interest? Or maybe their testosterone is so low they've lost interest period?

Regarding the point of your post, I'm sure there is a lot of that going around. But if an older guy is dating a younger woman, chances are good that he's going to have more resources than she is. So what are you going to do?

I have a younger girlfriend that I live with. I'm pretty certain she is mainly attracted to my personality. We have several things in common and similar values. But I'm sure my superior financial situation make her feel safe too, and I'm sure she likes that. It is what it is.
 
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Dear Zecko,
"Maybe since women live longer than men, they find themselves with near unlimited options at that age group?You are right,but sadly many of the older girls,have lost their Libido,sadly because looking around there are many very attractive Women in their sixties...without wishing to appear too smug,it really does get better as you get older....I dance and can still pull women in their fourties....I only go with Chinese girls these days...they are Gods greatest gift to Men,These fat Caucasian cat herders,have so many hang ups yet feel so entitled,that it isn't worth the candle.
 
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Cat herders?
 
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Agree with Scaramouch. Asian girls age so much better. I can't count the number of times I've seen a tight bodied hottie from behind, popped a woody in my pants, only to catch up to her and find out she's in her 40's/50's.

Desperate housewife heaven.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dear Zecko,
"Cat Herders?" Yeah at about the age of menopause some of these old girls despairing of ever getting a Man to boss around transfer their attention to Cats.
 
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They are ALL looking for a “sugar daddy” regardless of age. If you do well your income is a huge carrot that no woman can resist. "Carrot management" is a critical skill.
 
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Wearing Armani last night.. yeah, it definitely made a difference on the first impressions.

Then as always your game has to take it further
 
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