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The new trend in dating is the Sugar Daddy/Baby transactional relationship. Just curious to hear the different opinions?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Maybe for simps.
I think it is simpler to hire a prostitute. In the sugar daddy/baby dynamic the girl is trying to extract as much from the guy as possible while giving back as little in return. You will be expected to fund her lifestyle. You will have to give her an allowance or you will have to pay per meet and she will expect gifts and expensive dinners and there is still no guarantee she'll put out.
I think if you have the money to burn then you'd be a lot better off dating foreign women e.g. Russian, Latin, Asian where transactional relationships are well understood and women are less mercenary about it.
I think if you have the money to burn then you'd be a lot better off dating foreign women e.g. Russian, Latin, Asian where transactional relationships are well understood and women are less mercenary about it.
In my opinion, she will just use you for money. Moreover she could make a living simply by men giving her finances. It's all about the finances to her. Buy her dinner, transfer her etc.
Sure, there will be attractive women, however, they go on there imo to fund their lifestyle, financial needs.
I nearly did this year's ago, then I thought, why doesn't she just get a job like the rest of us do? She just wanted an easy life. This female wanted to have the finances to fund her high maintenance life.
You should be able to hold a conversation with women in real life. Once you get confident, doors could open.
Sure, there will be attractive women, however, they go on there imo to fund their lifestyle, financial needs.
I nearly did this year's ago, then I thought, why doesn't she just get a job like the rest of us do? She just wanted an easy life. This female wanted to have the finances to fund her high maintenance life.
You should be able to hold a conversation with women in real life. Once you get confident, doors could open.
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Sugar Babies are basically prostitutes. Discussion of prostitution has nothing to do with the stated purpose of the forum. The use of prostitutes required no seduction and therefore is prohibited.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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