Hey guys,
I haven't been on here in a while, but I have decided to return for some help.
Lately, I have lost the drive to meet girls or get with them. I have pretty much become real lazy about approaching and flirting, which is the complete opposite of how I used to be. I can't put a finger on what it may be. I just got back from spring break and I had a great time, but I did not get with any girls. I was insecure during my trip and it held me back from approaching girls. I resorted to drinking heavy loads of alcohol to see if that would help, but it didn't. I have decided to stop drinking / smoking for a while and get my health back on par from all the binge drinking.
Have you guys felt like this before? I almost feel like I'm a different person and have lost all my game. I used to be the flirtatious fun guy to be around, but lately I've just been quiet and down if anything.
What are some good articles I can read again to get me back on track and regain my confidence? Any tips from those who have been in this situation before?
One important thing is that my standards have been so high ever since my last girlfriend. Every girl I have seen, I immediately compare with my ex-gf and they don't meet up to how she was. I don't know how to get rid of this habit.
I haven't been on here in a while, but I have decided to return for some help.
Lately, I have lost the drive to meet girls or get with them. I have pretty much become real lazy about approaching and flirting, which is the complete opposite of how I used to be. I can't put a finger on what it may be. I just got back from spring break and I had a great time, but I did not get with any girls. I was insecure during my trip and it held me back from approaching girls. I resorted to drinking heavy loads of alcohol to see if that would help, but it didn't. I have decided to stop drinking / smoking for a while and get my health back on par from all the binge drinking.
Have you guys felt like this before? I almost feel like I'm a different person and have lost all my game. I used to be the flirtatious fun guy to be around, but lately I've just been quiet and down if anything.
What are some good articles I can read again to get me back on track and regain my confidence? Any tips from those who have been in this situation before?
One important thing is that my standards have been so high ever since my last girlfriend. Every girl I have seen, I immediately compare with my ex-gf and they don't meet up to how she was. I don't know how to get rid of this habit.