"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just made a quick approach on a new girl who caught my eye at work. Just introduced myself quick after not giving her much attention since the beginning of the night (we work 5 30 - 9, I'm at work now). Anyways, made some basic eye contact, nothing major then went up and introduced myself during the break. Talked to her about work (it's her first day) and how it is. Definitely came across as funny and outgoing. I told her I'd add her on facebook but I'm just going to get her number after work and not call her until next week Tuesday or something. Only reason I told her I'd add her on facebook was so I could ask the spelling of her name (I zoned out and missed it when she introduced herself). Anyways, just a little success story (so far), I'll have updates to come.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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And got the number easy. Ended up adding her on facebook at the advice of a friend (he's a constant browser here). She has a boyfriend. Kinda sucks, but her sorority is next door so hopefully she introduces me to some of her sisters.
 
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a sorority girl? dude, you've found the ultimate gatekeeper here.

congrats.
 
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What do you mean? I meet sorority girls everyday. I'm in college almost at the top of the fast growing fraternity on campus. I'll most likely be president next year.
 
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