"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MagnuM

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I've been a member of the board for 2 years now, and if it weren't for the tips and discussions raised here, I wouldn't think the same about life today. Thanks fellow successful Don Juan's...

First off, if you want to date in high school, do it at your own risk. Ask yourself, is it really worth all the effort? I'm mean come on...you should work towards grades instead of spending time and money on some confused girl who doesn't know what she wants out of life. I can say this because I was once in high school. But after you move on to college, things are much different. Oh...and another thing, if you don't go to college, you are a moron...

I graduated mid-year from high school, then started my second semester at my community college. I've already met many new faces and have gotten a girl's number.

One thing to note, be confident and laid back when getting a number, just say "Hey so and so, what's your number" or better yet "Why don't you give me your number"...etc

Don't take things to seriously at first, don't over analyze the way women react, and don't try to think to much about how you did. If you make mistakes, so what, you are human and that is what you do...

If you are a little nervous at first, just restore yourself later and don't become a wipping boy or emmotional tampon (i.e. douche bag who spends lots of money on a girl or talks to her to much and swoons over her like a lost puppy).

I set up a date with this girl a week from now. This shows that you are not trying to rush things. That is the biggest point I want to make...DON'T RUSH ANYTHING! Patience is the key when it comes to many things in life. If you set expectations, and can't meet them, this creates stress...and I'm sure we all know what stress does to a person.

End rant...

p.s. I still have to follow through with the date, but half the trouble is already over...

I'll keep you posted.



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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thefonz

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ya, and just keep yourself busy to keep your cool. If you find yourself thinking about her too much go to do some homework or something, read book, or hang out with other people and concentrate on them. Also it's ok to be nervous around girls once in awhile....back when i had my anxiety i was nervous all the time aruond this one girl who had a crush on me but her interest level remained high because she knew i was a good catch from the little tidbits of personality i portrayed to her and other people i WASN"Tnervous around. SHe asked me out a couple of times with her and her friends but i declined cus i was sorta pals with their boyfriends and i couldn't do that to guys i respected (and they probably coulda taken me)
 

DeathDealer

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Dunno about setting up a date that far off. I usually do it the next day or the next couple of days. Unless the both of you are business or professional people where being on the time counts.

Dating in high school and stuff is a lot different than dating in the 20s, its more fun and experimental but at least you get the experience rather than wait till later.

Also, I find it very strange seeing anyone under 18 in these forums, please stay in the high school forum ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MagnuM

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Just move it to the highschool forum then!
 
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