"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Success with women becoming apparent

CaptFinnBad

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Dating this women. This isn't a bad thing but it's becoming apparent she feels a little dread.

Just little comments like, "you pretend you're all wholesome but you know your own power you have over women".

"You know you could have any women you want".

She's even joked I'm a wh ore and is that where I get my money.

I really like her and perhaps want to build her comfort a lil.

She's met my family. It's heading towards longterm.

Things like my 3 year old nephew calling her by the wrong women's name, or my family in general knowing my success with women is a lil bit of an obstacle.

I mentioned my new women's birthday is coming up (most our families birthday us in march) to my sister. My sister said "not another match birthday, you going replace her?" FFS...

Everyone thinks women are replaceable and playthings for me. Not that case. Especially with rt this one.

Kept her away from my grandmother. As she's going to be a nightmare.

I told her about my latest girlfriend, she just rolled her eyes and said "what you doing building a hareem Richard!".

"All these women you need your own dating hotline".

I told her she's "nice!"

Her reply, " you say they are all nice until you get bored of them!".

Thing is being old, she doesn't give a **** and will tell this to women's faces.


Not that I tell my family about women. Only women I'm serious about.

We are a close family and they all gossip amoungst themselves. I live in a really large town but it's literally Iike they have eyes everywhere.



I'm serious about this girl and want to build her comfort a bit.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When women in your family give you grief, just tell them that they set a standard that is really hard for any women your age to live up to. Thus you have a wide net cast, to someday find that woman. And if you do find that woman, you don't want them scaring off the one who could someday give them a grandchild.

Even if you never plan on settling down, let your folks think when one is invited to the family events, she could be the one...
 

CaptFinnBad

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When women in your family give you grief, just tell them that they set a standard that is really hard for any women your age to live up to. Thus you have a wide net cast, to someday find that woman. And if you do find that woman, you don't want them scaring off the one who could someday give them a grandchild.

Even if you never plan on settling down, let your folks think when one is invited to the family events, she could be the one...
Thanks man. I really appreciate it.
 
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