"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Success with women becoming apparent

CaptFinnBad

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Dating this women. This isn't a bad thing but it's becoming apparent she feels a little dread.

Just little comments like, "you pretend you're all wholesome but you know your own power you have over women".

"You know you could have any women you want".

She's even joked I'm a wh ore and is that where I get my money.

I really like her and perhaps want to build her comfort a lil.

She's met my family. It's heading towards longterm.

Things like my 3 year old nephew calling her by the wrong women's name, or my family in general knowing my success with women is a lil bit of an obstacle.

I mentioned my new women's birthday is coming up (most our families birthday us in march) to my sister. My sister said "not another match birthday, you going replace her?" FFS...

Everyone thinks women are replaceable and playthings for me. Not that case. Especially with rt this one.

Kept her away from my grandmother. As she's going to be a nightmare.

I told her about my latest girlfriend, she just rolled her eyes and said "what you doing building a hareem Richard!".

"All these women you need your own dating hotline".

I told her she's "nice!"

Her reply, " you say they are all nice until you get bored of them!".

Thing is being old, she doesn't give a **** and will tell this to women's faces.


Not that I tell my family about women. Only women I'm serious about.

We are a close family and they all gossip amoungst themselves. I live in a really large town but it's literally Iike they have eyes everywhere.



I'm serious about this girl and want to build her comfort a bit.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When women in your family give you grief, just tell them that they set a standard that is really hard for any women your age to live up to. Thus you have a wide net cast, to someday find that woman. And if you do find that woman, you don't want them scaring off the one who could someday give them a grandchild.

Even if you never plan on settling down, let your folks think when one is invited to the family events, she could be the one...
 

CaptFinnBad

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When women in your family give you grief, just tell them that they set a standard that is really hard for any women your age to live up to. Thus you have a wide net cast, to someday find that woman. And if you do find that woman, you don't want them scaring off the one who could someday give them a grandchild.

Even if you never plan on settling down, let your folks think when one is invited to the family events, she could be the one...
Thanks man. I really appreciate it.
 
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