"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Success with women becoming apparent

CaptFinnBad

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Dating this women. This isn't a bad thing but it's becoming apparent she feels a little dread.

Just little comments like, "you pretend you're all wholesome but you know your own power you have over women".

"You know you could have any women you want".

She's even joked I'm a wh ore and is that where I get my money.

I really like her and perhaps want to build her comfort a lil.

She's met my family. It's heading towards longterm.

Things like my 3 year old nephew calling her by the wrong women's name, or my family in general knowing my success with women is a lil bit of an obstacle.

I mentioned my new women's birthday is coming up (most our families birthday us in march) to my sister. My sister said "not another match birthday, you going replace her?" FFS...

Everyone thinks women are replaceable and playthings for me. Not that case. Especially with rt this one.

Kept her away from my grandmother. As she's going to be a nightmare.

I told her about my latest girlfriend, she just rolled her eyes and said "what you doing building a hareem Richard!".

"All these women you need your own dating hotline".

I told her she's "nice!"

Her reply, " you say they are all nice until you get bored of them!".

Thing is being old, she doesn't give a **** and will tell this to women's faces.


Not that I tell my family about women. Only women I'm serious about.

We are a close family and they all gossip amoungst themselves. I live in a really large town but it's literally Iike they have eyes everywhere.



I'm serious about this girl and want to build her comfort a bit.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When women in your family give you grief, just tell them that they set a standard that is really hard for any women your age to live up to. Thus you have a wide net cast, to someday find that woman. And if you do find that woman, you don't want them scaring off the one who could someday give them a grandchild.

Even if you never plan on settling down, let your folks think when one is invited to the family events, she could be the one...
 

CaptFinnBad

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When women in your family give you grief, just tell them that they set a standard that is really hard for any women your age to live up to. Thus you have a wide net cast, to someday find that woman. And if you do find that woman, you don't want them scaring off the one who could someday give them a grandchild.

Even if you never plan on settling down, let your folks think when one is invited to the family events, she could be the one...
Thanks man. I really appreciate it.
 
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