"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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success with gunswitch method?

Mintyfresh

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So i actually read the whole gunswitch post and I must say that I'm not entirely convinced with a lot of what is said there. (Never getting phone numbers, laying girls you just met in the mall or department store, etc).

I know the whole idea of being in a sexual state while approaching and getting the girl into a sexual state is as well is GOLD as far as im concerned, but can anybody vouch that the rest of the article actually works when put into practice?

With the way the media portrays being slutty as social and moral suicide for women, I just can't see a guy walking up a girl and f-ucking her within an hour of meeting her (outside of a club / bar where alcohol is obviously involved.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nishbuk

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I think the main problem is how you're approaching this. The things we see on this site aren't a list of instructions that you can "try out to see if they work". There's no magic recipe or secret method to getting girls. There is however a state of beingness that you want to have. The gunwitch method is just another way to achieve a certain state of being. What you have to ask yourself is "what are my goals for this". Do you want to be like gunwitch? Is that your goal? Then you have to actually POSSES the personality traits, and attitude that he does. You can't just follow his steps and then, "Voila! Magic!". It doesn't work like that. You'll have to practice over, and over, and over, and eventually you'll have the traits that make gunwitch successful given his goals.

Now, if you don't want to be like gunwitch, then simply don't be like gunwitch. I guess my point, is that you need to work on your OWN personal state of being, and stop worrying about "trying out a method". If all you are doing is trying methods, then you probably won't succeed. It has to actually BE who you are. This is the inherent difference between DJs and people who follow the SS, or layguide sector. DJs are improving theirselves, to make women attracted to the real package, for a real relationship (or not). PUAs use lines and tactical tricks, and follow through with a specific game plan to get from point A to point B, regardless of how one feels inside.
 

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Yes I agree with Nishbuk, if you expect to get laid using GM for the first time, you'll prolly fail and think it's all bull. And you need to find the theory that's in tune with your personality.

Start by taking baby steps, like, do a cold approach, build rapport, innitiate kino, kiss on the cheek, heavy kino, kiss on the lips, make out, HJ, BJ, sex...just don't expect to do it all in the first outing.
 
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