"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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success with gunswitch method?

Mintyfresh

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So i actually read the whole gunswitch post and I must say that I'm not entirely convinced with a lot of what is said there. (Never getting phone numbers, laying girls you just met in the mall or department store, etc).

I know the whole idea of being in a sexual state while approaching and getting the girl into a sexual state is as well is GOLD as far as im concerned, but can anybody vouch that the rest of the article actually works when put into practice?

With the way the media portrays being slutty as social and moral suicide for women, I just can't see a guy walking up a girl and f-ucking her within an hour of meeting her (outside of a club / bar where alcohol is obviously involved.)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nishbuk

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I think the main problem is how you're approaching this. The things we see on this site aren't a list of instructions that you can "try out to see if they work". There's no magic recipe or secret method to getting girls. There is however a state of beingness that you want to have. The gunwitch method is just another way to achieve a certain state of being. What you have to ask yourself is "what are my goals for this". Do you want to be like gunwitch? Is that your goal? Then you have to actually POSSES the personality traits, and attitude that he does. You can't just follow his steps and then, "Voila! Magic!". It doesn't work like that. You'll have to practice over, and over, and over, and eventually you'll have the traits that make gunwitch successful given his goals.

Now, if you don't want to be like gunwitch, then simply don't be like gunwitch. I guess my point, is that you need to work on your OWN personal state of being, and stop worrying about "trying out a method". If all you are doing is trying methods, then you probably won't succeed. It has to actually BE who you are. This is the inherent difference between DJs and people who follow the SS, or layguide sector. DJs are improving theirselves, to make women attracted to the real package, for a real relationship (or not). PUAs use lines and tactical tricks, and follow through with a specific game plan to get from point A to point B, regardless of how one feels inside.
 

Magico

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Yes I agree with Nishbuk, if you expect to get laid using GM for the first time, you'll prolly fail and think it's all bull. And you need to find the theory that's in tune with your personality.

Start by taking baby steps, like, do a cold approach, build rapport, innitiate kino, kiss on the cheek, heavy kino, kiss on the lips, make out, HJ, BJ, sex...just don't expect to do it all in the first outing.
 
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