ccdeville
Don Juan
Guys I have to give you a true story of success. I originally posted this topic a month ago after meeting this hottie at a party http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/012184.html
I had decided to give up on this chick after she told me that she didn't want to get into any relationship, but she was perfectly willing to thrust me in the friendship zone because i'm "such a great guy" . I saw her again at another party, but I made sure I didn't make her the focus of my evening. I mingled with other women and had a good time just being myself. We spoke a little that night but by this time I was just content to know her as a casual aquaintance.
I decided to just call her last Sunday, just to see what was going on with her and not necessarily trying to seduce her. We had a good conversation, but I didn't realize how good it went. All of a sudden out of the blue she calls me on Friday and says she wants to come visit me. It was Midnight, so I knew what she had on her mind, even though she denied it. She lives in Connecticut I live in NY and when you have a girl willing to travel an hour to come see you, you know she's not coming over just to talk. Anyway, she arrives at my home at 2am, and It didn't take long, before she was out of her clothes and we were having sex. It was a terrific night.
This emphasises to me that it's not necessary to chase a woman all over the place to get what you want. Plant the seed, use your DJ skills and then let her come to you.
I had decided to give up on this chick after she told me that she didn't want to get into any relationship, but she was perfectly willing to thrust me in the friendship zone because i'm "such a great guy" . I saw her again at another party, but I made sure I didn't make her the focus of my evening. I mingled with other women and had a good time just being myself. We spoke a little that night but by this time I was just content to know her as a casual aquaintance.
I decided to just call her last Sunday, just to see what was going on with her and not necessarily trying to seduce her. We had a good conversation, but I didn't realize how good it went. All of a sudden out of the blue she calls me on Friday and says she wants to come visit me. It was Midnight, so I knew what she had on her mind, even though she denied it. She lives in Connecticut I live in NY and when you have a girl willing to travel an hour to come see you, you know she's not coming over just to talk. Anyway, she arrives at my home at 2am, and It didn't take long, before she was out of her clothes and we were having sex. It was a terrific night.
This emphasises to me that it's not necessary to chase a woman all over the place to get what you want. Plant the seed, use your DJ skills and then let her come to you.
