This day is a great day of the awkwardy history!
I was in this library, looking for a place to study. Then she came in, must have been a 6-7 something. I really liked her looks. Since I had never thought I could get any person above a 3-4.
So she looked a bookshelf and I come from her side and looked at the books too.
I started to talk a little with her, mainly about the book she was looking at and what books she liked and so fourth. She seemed to like me and I leaned into her space and I could see her pupils getting larger.
At last I asked her if she would like to join me for lunch and she agreed.
GREAT ! ! ! I though, she definatly seemed attracted to me. (She asked for my name and smiled a lot. Here pupils were widened and she had an open posture.)
Well just when we were about to walk into the resturant she began talking about her boyfriend that had come along to her journey, which we talked about. I thought "BOYFRIEND! whata**** do I do now?" I couldn't pull out now, not inside the resturant. So I thought, "hey whatahell, lets try a little NLP at her and see how she responds to it. She responded good, and was comfterable with me. (I made it look like we were very alike as persons, which we were. )
I decided to get the hell out of there when I had finished my lunch. She asked me then if I would like to join a club were she was going to. I said I was busy and got the hell out of there. I WANTED TO **** HER, NOT TO BE HER FRIEND! Did I do the right thing? I'm kind of angry at her. You don't go and have lunch with a complete stranger if you have a boyfriend! Do you think she was attracted to me? Should I have given her any compliments? I said she was nice once, embedded in a sentence. She talked most of the time and I listened mostly. She just talked and talked and talked. We didn't talk to much about me. Except when I said we were alike when she told something new about herself.
This was a success never-the-less cause it was my first approach. And it turned out to be fun.
I was in this library, looking for a place to study. Then she came in, must have been a 6-7 something. I really liked her looks. Since I had never thought I could get any person above a 3-4.
So she looked a bookshelf and I come from her side and looked at the books too.
I started to talk a little with her, mainly about the book she was looking at and what books she liked and so fourth. She seemed to like me and I leaned into her space and I could see her pupils getting larger.
At last I asked her if she would like to join me for lunch and she agreed.
GREAT ! ! ! I though, she definatly seemed attracted to me. (She asked for my name and smiled a lot. Here pupils were widened and she had an open posture.)
Well just when we were about to walk into the resturant she began talking about her boyfriend that had come along to her journey, which we talked about. I thought "BOYFRIEND! whata**** do I do now?" I couldn't pull out now, not inside the resturant. So I thought, "hey whatahell, lets try a little NLP at her and see how she responds to it. She responded good, and was comfterable with me. (I made it look like we were very alike as persons, which we were. )
I decided to get the hell out of there when I had finished my lunch. She asked me then if I would like to join a club were she was going to. I said I was busy and got the hell out of there. I WANTED TO **** HER, NOT TO BE HER FRIEND! Did I do the right thing? I'm kind of angry at her. You don't go and have lunch with a complete stranger if you have a boyfriend! Do you think she was attracted to me? Should I have given her any compliments? I said she was nice once, embedded in a sentence. She talked most of the time and I listened mostly. She just talked and talked and talked. We didn't talk to much about me. Except when I said we were alike when she told something new about herself.
This was a success never-the-less cause it was my first approach. And it turned out to be fun.
