"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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success good for revenge?

Swede54

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Well id say my band is doing quite good, and i always thought success was the best way of revenge. My ex gf i messaged recently from my bands myspace will most likely see it. Now i used to hate her quite mostly. But ive decided no point in grudges. Is success really a revenge?

Either way if you guys like metal..

www.myspace.com/morthvargr
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BuckwildNYC

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You hit the nail on the head. Living a happy successful life is by FAR the best revenge you could ever get on some bytch that treated you badly. Especially if it was during a low point in your life. She'll be looking at you like "dammmmm look what I missed out on" and you'll be laughing your ass off.
 

ego

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BuckwildNYC is right. And so are you.

Success is the best revenge of all. And it's usually something that really motivates you to achieve it.
 
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