"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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success good for revenge?

Swede54

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Well id say my band is doing quite good, and i always thought success was the best way of revenge. My ex gf i messaged recently from my bands myspace will most likely see it. Now i used to hate her quite mostly. But ive decided no point in grudges. Is success really a revenge?

Either way if you guys like metal..

www.myspace.com/morthvargr
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BuckwildNYC

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You hit the nail on the head. Living a happy successful life is by FAR the best revenge you could ever get on some bytch that treated you badly. Especially if it was during a low point in your life. She'll be looking at you like "dammmmm look what I missed out on" and you'll be laughing your ass off.
 

ego

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BuckwildNYC is right. And so are you.

Success is the best revenge of all. And it's usually something that really motivates you to achieve it.
 
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