"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Subtle VS Straightforward (verbal) flirting, which is best?

Shivastorm_88

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I don't really know how to explain or what kind of examples I can give, but the title is self-explanatory. Bear with me in this attempt of explanation.

This is ONLY about verbal flirting, not kino or anything

Is it better to flirt verbally in a really straightforward way and show with your words that you are interested in the girl, or flirt in a subtle way that can leave place to interpretation and questioning?

I think the latter simply because it keeps the girl second guessing, wondering what you mean, try to interpret, etc. Basically, I think it would keep her thinking about you.

I honestly don't know, any enlightenment would be good :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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terran2k

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depends on how long I've known her I suppose. but subtle flirting works best for me.
 

PokerInTheRear

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DJ_Hero said:
Mix them up. No one said you can only pick one.
Right on. Know when to stick her with sraight talk... Gets her juices pumping and increases the sexual tension. Just don't don't be a crude perv about it.
 
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