"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Subtle VS Straightforward (verbal) flirting, which is best?

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Shivastorm_88

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I don't really know how to explain or what kind of examples I can give, but the title is self-explanatory. Bear with me in this attempt of explanation.

This is ONLY about verbal flirting, not kino or anything

Is it better to flirt verbally in a really straightforward way and show with your words that you are interested in the girl, or flirt in a subtle way that can leave place to interpretation and questioning?

I think the latter simply because it keeps the girl second guessing, wondering what you mean, try to interpret, etc. Basically, I think it would keep her thinking about you.

I honestly don't know, any enlightenment would be good :D
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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terran2k

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depends on how long I've known her I suppose. but subtle flirting works best for me.
 
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DJ_Hero said:
Mix them up. No one said you can only pick one.
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Right on. Know when to stick her with sraight talk... Gets her juices pumping and increases the sexual tension. Just don't don't be a crude perv about it.
 
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