"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Paradox

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Many of us have been stalked by women. I am putting together a book of stalker stories. I am looking for your stalker stories

Just include how you met your stalker. How the relationship progressed and the different ways that your stalker pursued you.

I an giving a byline in the book as compensation. E-mail me here [email protected]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I haven't had stalkers as such. I've had people who blatantly go to the places they think I'll be.
 

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Really? I always saw guys being 'accused' of stalking and with women..it's not really talked about. Do you have an experience to share, paradox?
 

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Once there was this chap, very high up in law enforcement.

He got wind that the government was tipping off paramilitaries to bump off lawyers who defended terrorists.

So the government implemented a 'dirty tricks' campaign to discredit him.

He lost his job and now sells security rollerblinds on the telly with his dog.


English/Irish joke.
 

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hey

Do Ex GF's count?

I'm sure they wouldn't count as stalkers would they?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do Ex GF's count?
I'm sure they wouldn't count as stalkers would they?
If she was harassing you after the two of you broke up, showing up unexpectedly, finding out where you live, coming to your workplace, that counts as stalking.
 

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Re: hey

Originally posted by Rollo
Do Ex GF's count?

I'm sure they wouldn't count as stalkers would they?

Of course they count. Some of the worst stalkers are ex's who desperately want you back. What lengths did they go thru to try to get you back?

Stalkers usually show negative behavior i.e. (constant calling, threats, physical violence, leaving notes, knocking at your door at odd hours, damaging your property...ect)
 

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DAMN..

I just typed some chef type stuff of food for thought! And I lost ot when some dilly chicken came by the desk asking questions.

Ok. Let's try this again.

Stalking. Let's see. I was at one time thought I was being stalked by someone I used know & love. I knew/know she's been breaking into my apartment. But nothing was missing. Just stuff rearranged. I used to get mad and upset. When I started roll ladies into the palace, I could tell she would be upset because I had this Giant possible Tarantula. The chicken and i would leave to go out. I come back to the crib..joker would be all bent up. LOL. Nuts.Then so called friends would call and tell me "how much she was in love with me.." I even called 5-O, but the cops didn't care. two words. No Proof. I even bought a little cheap ass video setup. No go. It didn't work. I was at witts end. Tried finding her. Nope. Other crazy stuff was happening..I did something I had not done in a longtime.

I let it go. That's all I LET IT GO. I DID/DOING NOTHING. She had never taken anything. I don't have proof. The moment I stopped caring things really started looking up. I quit smoking and bought a pair of running shoes. I work with some of the most intelligent people under the Gov't. I've gotten numbers left and right. And at times I've even thrown some away because she wasn't a good fit, FOR ME. The site has helped me gain perspective. I can now share hope instead of seeking it.

But as far as being stalked in hind site. I wasn't. I think I was just being asked by someone to chase them and make them feel wanted. In the end, I never get what I want. Only a fanatic does something over and over while losing site of the main goal. The main goal isn't to star in a Drama, but to produce with a lucky lady out here to create the Story of US. I pump gas in my ride, I don't gas women.

Regret sux. I lived with it for years. Brighter day is finally here and my vision is clear. So let her call and hang up. Have these stooges call on Sat night to ask where I'm going. Fine. She can't stop progress. Truth crushed to earth will rise. Anybody wants some...come and get it.
 

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This one chick figured out my school schedule from my web journal. I post about my day and stuff and seriously, she started commenting on there and that was ok, but then she started appearing like near my locker and shiat and like knowing what I fukin looked like and shiat when I've never posted a picture. It was goddamned scary, so I started a new journal and "lived another life" through my old journal lying about my day and stuff like that. Threw that fuggin stalker off like a bull on crack. Then my final post on my site was "I've been lying to you all along. I hope you stalkers got some exercise running around and sweating. Thank you for your time."

Never saw her again. I felt so damn proud.
 

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Desdinova's stalker

Desdinova,

I just got your stalker story in my e-mail. Wow.

That girl was crazy (literally) about you.

I hereby promote you to True Master Don Juan


Kerensky,

Good story. You really tricked her. She thought that she was being sneaky but you were sneakier.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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