Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Paradox

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Many of us have been stalked by women. I am putting together a book of stalker stories. I am looking for your stalker stories

Just include how you met your stalker. How the relationship progressed and the different ways that your stalker pursued you.

I an giving a byline in the book as compensation. E-mail me here [email protected]
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I haven't had stalkers as such. I've had people who blatantly go to the places they think I'll be.
 

Chrispy

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Really? I always saw guys being 'accused' of stalking and with women..it's not really talked about. Do you have an experience to share, paradox?
 

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Once there was this chap, very high up in law enforcement.

He got wind that the government was tipping off paramilitaries to bump off lawyers who defended terrorists.

So the government implemented a 'dirty tricks' campaign to discredit him.

He lost his job and now sells security rollerblinds on the telly with his dog.


English/Irish joke.
 

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hey

Do Ex GF's count?

I'm sure they wouldn't count as stalkers would they?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do Ex GF's count?
I'm sure they wouldn't count as stalkers would they?
If she was harassing you after the two of you broke up, showing up unexpectedly, finding out where you live, coming to your workplace, that counts as stalking.
 

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Re: hey

Originally posted by Rollo
Do Ex GF's count?

I'm sure they wouldn't count as stalkers would they?

Of course they count. Some of the worst stalkers are ex's who desperately want you back. What lengths did they go thru to try to get you back?

Stalkers usually show negative behavior i.e. (constant calling, threats, physical violence, leaving notes, knocking at your door at odd hours, damaging your property...ect)
 

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DAMN..

I just typed some chef type stuff of food for thought! And I lost ot when some dilly chicken came by the desk asking questions.

Ok. Let's try this again.

Stalking. Let's see. I was at one time thought I was being stalked by someone I used know & love. I knew/know she's been breaking into my apartment. But nothing was missing. Just stuff rearranged. I used to get mad and upset. When I started roll ladies into the palace, I could tell she would be upset because I had this Giant possible Tarantula. The chicken and i would leave to go out. I come back to the crib..joker would be all bent up. LOL. Nuts.Then so called friends would call and tell me "how much she was in love with me.." I even called 5-O, but the cops didn't care. two words. No Proof. I even bought a little cheap ass video setup. No go. It didn't work. I was at witts end. Tried finding her. Nope. Other crazy stuff was happening..I did something I had not done in a longtime.

I let it go. That's all I LET IT GO. I DID/DOING NOTHING. She had never taken anything. I don't have proof. The moment I stopped caring things really started looking up. I quit smoking and bought a pair of running shoes. I work with some of the most intelligent people under the Gov't. I've gotten numbers left and right. And at times I've even thrown some away because she wasn't a good fit, FOR ME. The site has helped me gain perspective. I can now share hope instead of seeking it.

But as far as being stalked in hind site. I wasn't. I think I was just being asked by someone to chase them and make them feel wanted. In the end, I never get what I want. Only a fanatic does something over and over while losing site of the main goal. The main goal isn't to star in a Drama, but to produce with a lucky lady out here to create the Story of US. I pump gas in my ride, I don't gas women.

Regret sux. I lived with it for years. Brighter day is finally here and my vision is clear. So let her call and hang up. Have these stooges call on Sat night to ask where I'm going. Fine. She can't stop progress. Truth crushed to earth will rise. Anybody wants some...come and get it.
 

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This one chick figured out my school schedule from my web journal. I post about my day and stuff and seriously, she started commenting on there and that was ok, but then she started appearing like near my locker and shiat and like knowing what I fukin looked like and shiat when I've never posted a picture. It was goddamned scary, so I started a new journal and "lived another life" through my old journal lying about my day and stuff like that. Threw that fuggin stalker off like a bull on crack. Then my final post on my site was "I've been lying to you all along. I hope you stalkers got some exercise running around and sweating. Thank you for your time."

Never saw her again. I felt so damn proud.
 

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Desdinova's stalker

Desdinova,

I just got your stalker story in my e-mail. Wow.

That girl was crazy (literally) about you.

I hereby promote you to True Master Don Juan


Kerensky,

Good story. You really tricked her. She thought that she was being sneaky but you were sneakier.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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