"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi all,

My girlfriend is really submissive in bed. She loves it when i spank her, tie her up, bite her, **** her hard and generally be very rough with her. I definitely enjoy this too, but Ive got one major problem. She likes it when Im really rough, but I usually wind up leaving bruises. She tells me she doesnt mind, and that it actually turns her on a bit, but I am definitely not comfortable with my girlfriend having various bruises all over her body. The last thing I need is for her friends to think I beat her. So basically my question, what ideas do you guys have how we can keep this really rough sex going but not leave any bruises. Aside from the obvious, dont spank/bite her so hard, what suggestions do you have? Any other activities you can think of?

Also, if any of you have ever been in a relationship like this, I'd like to hear your experiences.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sexy_kuta

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wow dude,

wow thats all i can lol.

u da man!
 

jakeyboy

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bruises on where exactly? if you bite her really hard, there won't be any bruises. unless you keep biting at the same spot. usually it'll just leave red marks and fade away after a day. my girlfriend used to bite me really hard on the forearm when i fvck her. that used to leave bruises but it was cause she kept biting at the same spot.

reckon you can be rough without leaving bruises on her mate. try eating her out in a really rough fashion. no teeth though. just be wild with your tongue.

my girlfriend's pretty wild too so i know what you mean... but in this case i think fvcking her hard would suffice. you could scratch her back when you're doing it doggy style. but not until it bleeds man.

all the best.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
mine likes bruises. ;)
Careful that when you break up, she doesn't say you abused her.

My ex tried that, luckily noone believed her because I'm not that kind of person (trust me, I'm the last person in history of man you'd go to for violence against women).

She liked it rough too, actually loved it, but it's a double-edged sword, when women want to lie and hurt you, she'll say you beat her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just leave the bruises in places her friends can't see unless she goes out of her way to show them. I've fvcked girls who like it rough, and generally the only marks would be on their ass or inner thighs
 

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I would suggest that you stick to spanking her with your hand only, on the buttocks. You could probably clamp her nipples without leaving anything too obvious, since the skin there is darker. As for the biting, any hard biting is liable to leave a bruise.

Ensure your restraints are user friendly, eg padded. Also you could hot wax her, or maybe show that you really care, by investing in a quality electric cattle prod.
 

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ElChoclo said:
I would suggest that you stick to spanking her with your hand only, on the buttocks. You could probably clamp her nipples without leaving anything too obvious, since the skin there is darker. As for the biting, any hard biting is liable to leave a bruise.

Ensure your restraints are user friendly, eg padded. Also you could hot wax her, or maybe show that you really care, by investing in a quality electric cattle prod.

That's some serious sh*t right there.
 
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Your hor-friend is a Giga-hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There are no limiits for such!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some fool is going to marry this hor one day - most probable a Sosuave DJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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