suave speaks

[suavedave]

Hello, can we please have a new section? Moderators, I'm serious about this. There is a saying, "In the beginning, environment is more powerful than will-power." Each time I log in here, I see the same depressing sh*t. Everyone is whining about this and that and their lack of success. This type of complaining breeds more; insecurity is infectious. Look, for instance at some recent post titles:


"My Phone Skills are Terrible"

"how badly did i f* up this time"

"Worst day in my life....so far"

"i know this is AFCish"

i don't mean any disrespect to the above posters, for God knows I have, and most likely will use this place to air grievances. But can we at least section off an area that is for complaining and feeling sorry for ourselves, and leave this area as a place to really get down to business and create some genuine changes in ourselves.

k-later

 

[One on One]

Speaking of putting threads in the right place, have you heard of Suggestions and Feedback?

A Successes forum wouldn't work anyways. To my understanding, it has been tried before and failed. I don't know why, but I predict if it was used again, it would fail because you would see threads such as:

I talked to a girl!!!!
She smiled at me!!!!

Now, are those successes? What is a success? It's all subjective. Are we really here? Do we live in the Matrix?....but I digress.

It isn't that difficult to wade through the "garbage" (which you included my post about phone skills, which can be found at http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32636 , only $0.10 for the first 20 minutes of reading!!) and find what you want to read. This thread is rather depressing in itself. Practice what you preach.

 

[Jay26]

Yeah I was thinking the same thing, there's an aweful lot of self-pity here.

 

[iqqi]

you guys got the wrong idea. some people really just need advice, even if they already know whats up, it helps to have others weigh in and give you insight. if life is wonderful, why are you even in the house on the net, right?